Do most men cheat in their marriage every now and then?

[Anonymous]

Most men get bored and need variety ( you have to admit that), so do you think that most men pay an escort every now and then to get some entertainment? i think that most wives are totally oblivious of this secret hobby of their husbands especially if their hubby doesn't change his behavior and is even more nicer! who agrees?

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

If they want to get divorced they do.

[Anonymous]

You really don't like men if you have such a low opinion of their morals.

[Anonymous]

I don't. Been married 10 years. Sure it sounds like fun but my wife is supposed to be my partner, best friend, and closest ally. She is the one person that I am supposed to be able to count on and trust above all others and I want her to feel the same way about me. I get that people can be unhappy in marriages and wander. Human relationships are complicated, but there are enough people out there that are prepared to treat each other like sh*t I don't want to be a part of that with respect to my wife.

[Anonymous]

The ones with relatively high sex drives whose needs are consistenly unmet do, some of them, at least.

[Anonymous]

Some - yes
Most - STFU

[Anonymous]

"Most" - no. Some, yes. Women too.

[Anonymous]

My husband and I were taking an evening walk last night and he very randomly and casually said something along the lines of how he doesn't think humans were designed to be monogamous because he sees a hot chick thinks about hooking up but wouldn't because he loves me and wouldn't want anything to happen to me. But the desire for something "different" or "strange" is still there. He then said he thinks it's God testing our faith/vows. I dunno about the last part but the first makes me nervous! Maybe he just felt comfortable being open with me...we have been married 4 years and he is 15 years my senior for background.

[Anonymous]

HUH? No way.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

About the same amount as women cheating.

[Anonymous]

There are probably some empirical studies that would shed light on this. That being said, most of the reading I've done says men don't cheat necessarily b/c they are unhappy with their LTR, but because the opportunity is there and they can get away with it. Women, on the other hand, are looking for something they don't get in the LTR.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband and I were taking an evening walk last night and he very randomly and casually said something along the lines of how he doesn't think humans were designed to be monogamous because he sees a hot chick thinks about hooking up but wouldn't because he loves me and wouldn't want anything to happen to me. But the desire for something "different" or "strange" is still there. He then said he thinks it's God testing our faith/vows. I dunno about the last part but the first makes me nervous! Maybe he just felt comfortable being open with me...we have been married 4 years and he is 15 years my senior for background.

Honestly, it sounds like he's testing the waters with comments like that. Think about if you were to throw out a comment like that randomly -- what would prompt *you* to say something like that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some - yes
Most - STFU

I honestly think it's more than "some", i don't know if you are messing with me but i think you already know that ( it doesn't have to be sex to be considered cheating btw, i don't know if you realized that).