If the kids aren't in the water (which they DEFINITELY shouldn't be at night), no worries. It would take a desperate alligator to snatch a child from a sandy beach. I think people get too comfortable while on vacation and forget to use common sense. |
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Neither. It was just a tragedy that happens. Why can't people understand that? |
Disney's fault! They created the circumstances to get families on those beaches at night. |
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People blame the parents because they are in denial. They want to feel in control of everything in their lives and don't want to believe that something so horrible can happen in very normal and common circumstances. They don't know how to process that. So instead they make it seem like the parents could have prevented it.
I get it, guys. It's hard to accept that we're helpless sometimes. But your words are very cruel toward those parents experiencing the worst kind of grief. Please think before you lash out at the parents. What if they saw what you wrote? |
I am highly educated. I live in New England and visit beaches nearly every day. I am aware that alligators live in Florida, and specifically in the Everglades. I would never dream that there are alligators at the shoreline of a Disney advertised "white sands" beach where families are encouraged to play and watch fireworks. Absent signage saying "No Wading" due to bacteria, alligators, whatever, my 2 year old would certainly have been allowed to go in the water up to his ankles as I stood nearby. There but by the grace of God go I. Just horrifying. |
Lots of things have the illusion of being safe. You still need to use your head. I can't believe people want a warning about alligators in FLORIDA. |
That's not how it works, sweetie. |
On the beach does not equal in the water. |
It's not?!? Thank God for you or my next vacation itinerary would have been REALLY screwed up. Score one for educating others on the internet! |
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I highly doubt the parents are on DCUM right now -- I think they have other things on their mind. The Chicago Trib said it was a family of 5 -- wonder who the 5th member is, adult or child and where they were? Kind of wondering about this family generally -- don't know why, just curious. |
No, I blame the parents because they were in water, in Florida, AT NIGHT. There's no way in hell I'd do that. There are many reasons to feel helpless when an accident occurs. This is pretty easy to avoid. |
It was a large body of water, not a pool. I don't know that you can assume that there won't be wildlife in the water. At the same time, the parents were probably thinking more along the lines of staying close enough to grab him if he fell down in the water not rescue him from gators. It was a freak thing. |
This is what confuses me. Why is Disney somehow separate from Florida? Is it not in Florida? How would you reasonably expect them to ensure there is no wildlife in their waters? Seriously. How? |
Your snark was a fail. Use your big girl words. |