In what ways would you be considered trashy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

Really? So you sit in your hot tub naked with your naked friends? This is fascinating to me.

What is that you find fascinating about social nudity? Adults being adults

[Anonymous]

I'm obese and sometimes wear leggings in first class (with a tunic that covers my butt).

[Anonymous]

I’ve shopped at Giant before.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I drink soda and eat chips. I’m also overweight (but powerlift regularly.)

[Anonymous]

My family think I'm trashy because

I picked a suburb with good public schools instead of private
I shop at Safeway, Costco, Trader Joes instead of whole foods
I don't care about expensive cars or clothes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

Really? So you sit in your hot tub naked with your naked friends? This is fascinating to me.

What is that you find fascinating about social nudity? Adults being adults

Sometimes I feel like DCUM is so insular. Have you never been to Japan, Korea, or Scandinavia? There's tons of public nudity in their hot tubs/springs and saunas. It's not seen as sexual at all--families are nude in front of each other, colleagues as well. It's just.a.body.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

Really? So you sit in your hot tub naked with your naked friends? This is fascinating to me.

What is that you find fascinating about social nudity? Adults being adults

Sometimes I feel like DCUM is so insular. Have you never been to Japan, Korea, or Scandinavia? There's tons of public nudity in their hot tubs/springs and saunas. It's not seen as sexual at all--families are nude in front of each other, colleagues as well. It's just.a.body.

Not the person you're responding to, but I was an exchange student in Sweden and there was "some" nudity but it wasn't nearly as ubiquitous as you're trying to make it out to be. Also, the PP you're referring to doesn't live in Korea, Japan or Scandinavia. She lives in the U.S. and is allowed to judge things based on that standard, not the standard of another culture entirely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

Really? So you sit in your hot tub naked with your naked friends? This is fascinating to me.

What is that you find fascinating about social nudity? Adults being adults

Sometimes I feel like DCUM is so insular. Have you never been to Japan, Korea, or Scandinavia? There's tons of public nudity in their hot tubs/springs and saunas. It's not seen as sexual at all--families are nude in front of each other, colleagues as well. It's just.a.body.

NP. You sound really gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

Really? So you sit in your hot tub naked with your naked friends? This is fascinating to me.

What is that you find fascinating about social nudity? Adults being adults

Sometimes I feel like DCUM is so insular. Have you never been to Japan, Korea, or Scandinavia? There's tons of public nudity in their hot tubs/springs and saunas. It's not seen as sexual at all--families are nude in front of each other, colleagues as well. It's just.a.body.

Not the person you're responding to, but I was an exchange student in Sweden and there was "some" nudity but it wasn't nearly as ubiquitous as you're trying to make it out to be. Also, the PP you're referring to doesn't live in Korea, Japan or Scandinavia. She lives in the U.S. and is allowed to judge things based on that standard, not the standard of another culture entirely.

As someone who has lived in Korea for decades I assure you there is no mixed sex bathing going on in reputable (read legal) establishments.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We have an above ground pool

Ha! Us too- it’s not a permanent one but rather a small intex model that we bought as a COVID coping device back in 2020 when all of the pools in DC were closed. Turns out it’s great fun and we put it up again last summer and probably will this year as well. Grew up in a very waspy setting where this would be the most gauche thing imaginable- I think it also brings me a bit of subversive joy as a result.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My family think I'm trashy because

I picked a suburb with good public schools instead of private
I shop at Safeway, Costco, Trader Joes instead of whole foods
I don't care about expensive cars or clothes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My family think I'm trashy because

I picked a suburb with good public schools instead of private
I shop at Safeway, Costco, Trader Joes instead of whole foods
I don't care about expensive cars or clothes

I picked a suburb with bad schools
I shop at Giant
I get my clothes from Walmart

[Anonymous]

I have an AAS degree, that’s it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We have an above ground pool

Ha! Us too- it’s not a permanent one but rather a small intex model that we bought as a COVID coping device back in 2020 when all of the pools in DC were closed. Turns out it’s great fun and we put it up again last summer and probably will this year as well. Grew up in a very waspy setting where this would be the most gauche thing imaginable- I think it also brings me a bit of subversive joy as a result.

we have the blue Intex pool as well! I don't care what the neighbors think, my kids love it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have an AAS degree, that’s it

OMG we have a winner!