The purpose of this thread is for parents to vent. We all know what matters the most is the high school. The correct expectation should be established based on your own high school data, not on random online posts from random high schools. No one will correct the expectations based on these posts. |
CMU has a 5-7% acceptance rate, and it's even lower for CS. It's not shocking. 85% of students applying are "qualified" yet only 2-3% get into CS. That means many many highly qualified will get rejected. It's a numbers game. |
I think the point is that these are not "super high stats"
There is no such thing because the ceiling is so low. Literally almost ten thousand kids exactly like this. |
Just listed a few of the ECs but yes in between taking 8 classes including 5 AP at same time+college math class, practice for sports, and 2 clubs there was not enough time to do much else. I do love how everyone likes to blame the kids versus a broken system that labels kids not meeting the Ivy/Ivy plus as some kind of failure. I only share this to help other understand the situation. |
There’s a higher EC threshold required for that major. Your kid should’ve picked applied math or statistics or data science or something. Even undecided is better than CS. |
Huh? where did I ever say the kid was some kind of a failure for not meeting ivy or ivy plus standards. Once we take away the hooked kids, we are left with unhooked ones. First, the ones who don't have the minimum standards academically are largely eliminated. Next, the schools look for institutional priorities + what the kid will bring to their school to help their school community + what else rounds the kid out. While I do think there is a lot wrong with the system, this part is fair. Obviously, there has to be something that differentiates a kid who did what yours did academically but did very little EC-wise, from a kid who did what yours did academically and did a ton EC wise. This doesn't mean your kid is in any way a failure, but it does mean that your kid's profile is not one that would typically get into a highly selective school because the ECs are very, very mediocre. Other kids are handling rigorous course loads and also doing a ton of ECs. Do you not think those kids' profiles would be more appealing to an AO? Your kid is absolutely not a failure but your kid has a weak overall profile. Not sure how you could be on these boards and yet not know this. |
Again you are assuming... |
Clarify, please. What am I assuming based on what you've said. |
You are assuming weak ECs based on listing a sample. Not putting every little detail about my kid out there. Every one of these threads on stats degrades to this. High stats bad results must be something wrong. My point is nothing was wrong, there are tons of kids with a strong profile and not enough space for all of of them. I wish more people understood this so I share my kids story. |
100%! Once the kid meet the threshold its random. A small number get lucky, it doesn't mean they were better in any way than the other qualified kids who lost the lottery. Human nature is look for a logical answer, no one wants to believe that their kid's college fate comes down to the roll of the dice so they minutely parse the stats/profiles of the lucky and unlucky hoping for a way to differentiate their kid . . . |
I agree w/you. Its one bored mom trolling and she cuts everyone down like this. She sits and waits for ANYONE to respond. Its why most of us have left this site for other places to discuss college admissions. |
I'm assuming weak ECs based on exactly what YOU said. No one needs every little detail but when you said the kid was a varsity athlete + a part time employee as the only ECs and then you add, "Just listed a few of the ECs but yes in between taking 8 classes including 5 AP at same time+college math class, practice for sports, and 2 clubs there was not enough time to do much else" it is clear the ECs were weak. You can add more...but YOU said there wasn't much time for ECs. So yeah, I didn't assume anything. While sometimes high stats + ECs + excellent apps still doesn't mean hoped-for results. In your kid's case, there was "something wrong" which was that his ECs were a big weak spot of the app (even if the ECs were more than the two you listed). |
Was being sarcastic. There was leadership and school recognition in the 2 clubs. |
I am not sure why I'm bothering but leadership and school recognition in 2 clubs is still very little EC-wise. You don't seem to want to hear this and don't like the kid getting "blame" but it is true. And I'm not blaming your kid...but a fair assessment of how you've presented this kid indicates this applicant would not be strong for highly competitive schools/programs. |
DS was rejected from all of the Ivy plus schools and ended up at Georgetown. His younger sister had a worse GPA and SAT score but got into Princeton. That's why this admissions game is a crapshoot at the very elite schools. Your DS had some great choices - which one did he pick of the three? |