| My DC started this year as a 9th grader at a Big 3. He came from a public school where I was on the younger side of the parent group (I'm 38 now) but everyone seemed roughly the same age. I can't believe how much older the private school parents are (especially the fathers). Many of them seem old enough to be MY parents. Has anyone else noticed this? It's a bit awkward to try to strike up friendships with people from a different generation. |
| Please don't flatter yourself. |
| You are right. The parents in DC are older in general and at privates I think are even older. But in 9th grade it isn't really the parents that are friends as much as the kids so I wouldn't worry to much about trying to have awkward interactions. Of course, it's all how you view them... |
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THAT is a personal problem on your behalf. |
| Have noticed hags and geezers and trophy wives. Goes with the territory. |
Damn, you again? What happened? Off Topics dry up? |
| You're 38, not a child. You should be able to socialize with the other parents, no matter their age. It's what well-adjusted adults do. |
| It's because people who waited until they were in their late 30s/40s to have kids had more time to accumulate wealth before paying for things like childcare. It just makes sense that the average parent of private school parents would be older. |
Closer to 40 than 30. You should have no problem finding someone to communicate with. |
| OP, are you trying to have a play date arranged for your ninth grader? Let your child socialize, not you. He is a teenager. |
Do you go trolling from thread to thread? |
| My friend is 47 with a 15-year-old at a smaller DC private, and says she and her 46-year-old husband are the youngest parents there by a long shot. So yes, I think she would notice if she were ten years younger and all those parents were that old. |
| Just stay away from the teachers and school shrink! |
| I am 40 with an 11th grader, so perhaps I am just looking older. |