She's a Homewrecker: would anybody actually do this?

[Anonymous]

Hi all: according to Jezebel's article anyway (link:http://jezebel.com/this-website-exposes-the-woman-your-partner-cheated-on-1454128297), She's a Homewrecker http://shesahomewrecker.com/ is the latest site for slut-shaming and frankly "ho" blaming when I personally believe that the responsibility should be laid squarely on cheating spouses.
So say we all? (Hi to all you Baltar fans out there) Or no go, blame the homewrecker?

Well, DCUM: what do you believe in? Shame sites or holding CPOS responsible?

[Anonymous]

I'd be ashamed if I were a slut.

R U 1 ?

[Anonymous]

If she knows he's married, it's equally her fault. It's just semantics to say "only he's married." They are both equally contributing to the demise of a marriage. To suggest otherwise is just spilling hairs.

If he concealed the marriage, then what is she supposed to do? He's solely to blame.

[Anonymous]

If other party knows married party is married...blame is 75% on married person, 25% on other person.

If other party doesn't know or doesn't find out til much later - 100% on married person

Other party doesn't know and then finds out and continues the affair - 50/50

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be ashamed if I were a slut.

R U 1 ?

No. I'm a happily married DW, I just think that the concept is sexist. How about He's A CPOS as a companion site? At least don't discriminate. Call both of them on it.

[Anonymous]

This reminds me of isawyournanny.com.

[Anonymous]

Not slut shaming to be outing people sleeping with other people's husbands and wives.

I have no issue with it.

[Anonymous]

There are lots of sites outing men who cheat and who sleep with married women. Did you also object to those?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are lots of sites outing men who cheat and who sleep with married women. Did you also object to those?

Yes because I think that it's a problem of the marriage and the DH/DW involved. Of course the OW/M could be totally nuts, but still OW/M didn't commit to love someone forever. Only the original two parties to the marriage made the commitment to fidelity. All others are just outsiders to the marriage.

[Anonymous]

that site seems ripe for a defamation suit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are lots of sites outing men who cheat and who sleep with married women. Did you also object to those?

Yes because I think that it's a problem of the marriage and the DH/DW involved. Of course the OW/M could be totally nuts, but still OW/M didn't commit to love someone forever. Only the original two parties to the marriage made the commitment to fidelity. All others are just outsiders to the marriage.

It is such a massive moral failure, such a lack of integrity and a lack of personal character to sleep with someone you know to be married that I don't really mind if they are outed either. Pretty easy to avoid being on the website, don't sleep with other people' spouses.

[Anonymous]

God, they are all so disgusting looking. Blech

[Anonymous]

The only person who is the homewrecker is the cheating spouse. There is no equal blame. Putting blame on the other person instead of your douche spouse makes you weak, pathetic and making excuses for having a shitty partner.

[Anonymous]

If a single woman slept with my DH, then the fault is entirely my DHs.

Actually no matter who sleeps with my DH - single, married, divorced, widowed, lesbian , MILF, slut, saint - I will blame my DH. Why? I do not have a relationship and kids with any other person but him. So, he cheated on me, not her. So - off with his balls.

[Anonymous]

It's all on the cheater.

The other woman might have other concerns (potential for long-term relationship, etc), but not the crappy marriage.