She's a Homewrecker: would anybody actually do this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only person who is the homewrecker is the cheating spouse. There is no equal blame. Putting blame on the other person instead of your douche spouse makes you weak, pathetic and making excuses for having a shitty partner.

There's enough blame to go around. It doesn't make you weak to also blame someone who is a party to the cheating. It makes you aware, intelligent, and cognizant of the facts. It doesn't mean you don't also blame the cheating spouse. I find it very hard to believe that none of you acting like it's only the cheating spouse's fault wouldn't point fingers at the person fucking your spouse.

[Anonymous]

Funny that you mention the site. I think someone on DCUM mentioned it a couple of weeks ago. I have been totally obsessed with it since. I actually just finished perusing today's batch of homewreckers!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only person who is the homewrecker is the cheating spouse. There is no equal blame. Putting blame on the other person instead of your douche spouse makes you weak, pathetic and making excuses for having a shitty partner.

There's enough blame to go around. It doesn't make you weak to also blame someone who is a party to the cheating. It makes you aware, intelligent, and cognizant of the facts. It doesn't mean you don't also blame the cheating spouse. I find it very hard to believe that none of you acting like it's only the cheating spouse's fault wouldn't point fingers at the person fucking your spouse.

nah, it's the shitty spouse.

[Anonymous]

Any website that "outs" people for this kind of thing, even if it's wrong, is so fucking gross.

[Anonymous]

They all start with, "Me and my husband" or "My man and me have been together" Ugh...maybe he slept with that ho because she knows it is, "My husband and I"

[Anonymous]

If you commit a crime with another person, can you be prosecuted as an accessory? Sure. Of course the OW or OM is also responsible for the infidelity. It is such a cop-out not to own your shit, but I guess that it is easier to rationalize bad behavior that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you commit a crime with another person, can you be prosecuted as an accessory? Sure. Of course the OW or OM is also responsible for the infidelity. It is such a cop-out not to own your shit, but I guess that it is easier to rationalize bad behavior that way.

Oh shut it. Being with a married person is not a crime (atleast in most stats.) I just find it sickening when the betrayed spouse always goes after the other woman/man before putting blame where it ought to be, which is the adulterous spouse. And then staying with the spouse while maligning the other other person? No sympathy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you commit a crime with another person, can you be prosecuted as an accessory? Sure. Of course the OW or OM is also responsible for the infidelity. It is such a cop-out not to own your shit, but I guess that it is easier to rationalize bad behavior that way.

Oh shut it. Being with a married person is not a crime (atleast in most stats.) I just find it sickening when the betrayed spouse always goes after the other woman/man before putting blame where it ought to be, which is the adulterous spouse. And then staying with the spouse while maligning the other other person? No sympathy.

No one is saying not to blame the spouse more. But it is bullsh!t to pretend that the other person doesn't bear responsibility, too. Just a cop-out.

[Anonymous]

If she sent naked pictures of herself to DH, I most definitely would out her out with them on the site! But just writing her name and Facebook profile pic, probably not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she sent naked pictures of herself to DH, I most definitely would out her out with them on the site! But just writing her name and Facebook profile pic, probably not.

Would you send naked pics that your dh sent as well?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she sent naked pictures of herself to DH, I most definitely would out her out with them on the site! But just writing her name and Facebook profile pic, probably not.

Would you send naked pics that your dh sent as well?

May be yes, may be know. Putting his naked pic on the net is too mild an action for the hurt he caused me and would not hurt him enough. I would think of something more personal and where it really hurts for his cheating ass!