Boyfriend wants us to go to a strip club
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Anonymous
| My boyfriend wants to go to the strip club. He wants us to go together. I am not sure how I feel about it. I never went to a strip club before. Will it be innocent? Is there touching involved? Should I go or hell no? |
Anonymous
| Go and drink. Enjoy the view. Married mom here. |
Anonymous
| It is usually very innocent with no touching involved. If you love your boyfriend you'll go. Relationships include give and take. You might enjoy yourself despite your apprehensions. |
Anonymous
| No |
Anonymous
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Grow some ovaries and tell him, Hell No!
Writing is on the wall... |
Anonymous
| A girlfriend secure enough to go with their boyfriend to a strip club? He'd be a fool not to be impressed and appreciative! |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| Do it. Get a lap dance. Then go home and have awesome sex. |
Anonymous
| I went with a boyfriend once. It was sort of fun, but not really something I feel the need to repeat. |
Anonymous
| Ick. |
Anonymous
| Relax, honey. He didn't ask you to become a stripper! I'm a married mom and forced my husband to go. My sister and I took him. My sister and I had fun while my husband enjoyed the scenery. I don't see the big deal. We go once every few years and enjoy it. |
Anonymous
| only go if it is a male strip club. you want to see those cute guys take their clothes off! |
Anonymous
| Your boyfriend will take it beyond just going to a strip joint. Be aware. |
Anonymous
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I'm a woman who doesn't actually mind my partner looking at porn or going to strip clubs (aside from the coercion/human trafficking/drug dependence issues that make supporting those industries immoral) although I am extremely happy that my boyfriend considers them crossing a firm line and won't even consider going to one.
So if you are okay with it, go. If you aren't, don't. Everyone will have different levels of comfort so listen to your own instincts and let them guide you either way. |
Anonymous
| The women will be more interested in you. Only go if you are ok with that. |