Boyfriend wants us to go to a strip club

[Anonymous]

Go, not a big deal.Expensive though and not as much "fun" as i thought it would be.Been to a few.Girls look sad...

[Anonymous]

Funny how some say on here that you would be a good girlfriend and secure if you go....implying that if you preferred not to you aren't a good girlfriend???

[Anonymous]

Married mom of two kids here. We go every once and a while. No big deal. A ton of fun. Don't go if you are insecure or jealous. It will end in a fight. My friend went with her husband and left in a jealous rage. That is bad news.

[Anonymous]

I was casually dating my boyfriend when we went to a strip club for my birthday. I've been several times before. Go and have fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is usually very innocent with no touching involved. If you love your boyfriend you'll go. Relationships include give and take. You might enjoy yourself despite your apprehensions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is usually very innocent with no touching involved. If you love your boyfriend you'll go. Relationships include give and take. You might enjoy yourself despite your apprehensions.

Lol. First pp sounds like a dumbass.

[Anonymous]

"If you love your boyfriend you'll go".
?????????

Sounds like someone in a rather controlling relationship.

OP, I would say go. It could be fun. I don't know how innocent a lap dance could be.. but your BF goes home with you at the end of the night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is usually very innocent with no touching involved. If you love your boyfriend you'll go. Relationships include give and take. You might enjoy yourself despite your apprehensions.

If you love your boyfriend you will go?! What are you, 13?

[Anonymous]

The rules in men's and women's strip clubs are different. Where the men are dancing, touching is encouraged, and patrons do touch. Where the women are dancing, there is a strict "no touch" rule, enforced by bouncers. Which means you don't touch them. They may well still touch you--no direct sexual touching, but hands on your shoulders, hair across your face, legs pressing up against yours, all while slowly shaking their jiggly parts inches from your face without touching (well, maybe the occasional "accidental" brush). Think of it as rubbing their perfume, but not their skin, against you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Funny how some say on here that you would be a good girlfriend and secure if you go....implying that if you preferred not to you aren't a good girlfriend???

Touche.

[Anonymous]

I've gone with DH and with friends. It's no big deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:only go if it is a male strip club. you want to see those cute guys take their clothes off!

Im liking this!

But seriously. Why do YOU need to reach outside your comfort zone for him exactly? What makes him so special in his mind.

Dont be fooled. MOST WOMEN will NOT want to go to a strip club or go with their guys to a strip club. There is nothing abnormal about NOT wanting to go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Go, not a big deal.Expensive though and not as much "fun" as i thought it would be.Been to a few.Girls look sad...

I have a friend who worked in Las Vegas as a magician for many years. SHe had a chance to meet many many exotic dancers. She said every single one she talked to was a victim of sexual abuse by a family member, usually their father. She met one that she was convinced was the excpeption, only to find out that she too was in the same boat.

The occasional law student here and there is a needle in the haystack compared to where the vast majority of exoti dancers come from and go to. They are lured by the potentially excellent money, which, if actually excellent, keeps them there. They can only do it for a few years before they are too old, and then its not like they can put that on their resume.

Most everything in the world that we partake in, just about, comes at a cost to someone else. Is this worth your time and money?