1st birthday party ...torn and feeling bad

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[Post New]09/20/2013 21:59
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Anonymous
Our second is turning 1 right around Thanksgiving, if that's not hectic enough, we'll also be moving into a new home days before that. Our first had a full blown party at our home and it was such much fun, but also a lot of work and a lot of clean up.

I don't particularly want to invite a bunch of people to our home when we've just moved in, but I also feel very bad that her sister had a big
party...just feels like the start of the "I never get what my sister gets fight."

Any suggestions on what I can do to make this special for our little one? Should I suck it up and have a gathering out our newly moved into home or should I let go of guilt?? What to do instead?

Thanks!!
[Post New]09/20/2013 22:02
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ChipotleLady
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FTL stack trace ("~" means nesting-related):
	- Failed at: ${avatarMaxHeight}  [in template "default/post_show_user_inc.htm" at line 22, column 107]
	- Reached through: #include "post_show_user_inc.htm"  [in template "default/post_show.htm" at line 105, column 33]
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