how do parents start an affair?

[Anonymous]

not asking why, but how is it done

[Anonymous]

By losing all self-respect, then realizing that they have no moral character or integrity. Then realizing that they find lying, cheating, and deceiving to be qualities they hold. Then realizing that they don't really care if they emotionally hurt their spouse or their kids, then flirting with someone of the opposite sex and then having sex with them. That's how it is done.

[Anonymous]

I wonder this too. Who the F has the time or energy? If I was that interested in getting fucked, I'd throw my DH a bone, and I don't even like him half the time. But at least he's nearby.

DH sucks enough life out of me. I couldn't handle an affair if I wanted to.

I can also make myself cum in like 3 seconds, so I don't really feel the need.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder this too. Who the F has the time or energy? If I was that interested in getting fucked, I'd throw my DH a bone, and I don't even like him half the time. But at least he's nearby.

DH sucks enough life out of me. I couldn't handle an affair if I wanted to.

I can also make myself cum in like 3 seconds, so I don't really feel the need.

This. Another person who wants something from me? No thank you.

[Anonymous]

My husband started his online.

[Anonymous]

My ex-wife started hers on Facebook. She sent a message to an old boyfriend from high school to just "catch up." That led to sending texts because he didn't have time to check Facebook, and then phone calls because they didn't feel like texting anymore. They were so amazed at how much they had in common. He seemed safe to share her problems with because they used to be close but there was so much time between them that it didn't feel like spilling our personal life to our closer friends. Then all of a sudden there was attraction and this tingle of excitement from admitting these feelings behind my back. The next thing you know, one person is making plans to meet in person.

*I gleaned all of this by reading their email and text chains.

[Anonymous]

Easier with a close family friend and safer... Others online...

[Anonymous]

People who travel a lot for work seem to start affairs, so maybe one answer to the question would be that an affair starts when one spouse has multiple opportunities to engage in bad behavior due to being in a different place than the other on a regular basis.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:By losing all self-respect, then realizing that they have no moral character or integrity. Then realizing that they find lying, cheating, and deceiving to be qualities they hold. Then realizing that they don't really care if they emotionally hurt their spouse or their kids, then flirting with someone of the opposite sex and then having sex with them. That's how it is done.

That's a lot of realization

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder this too. Who the F has the time or energy? If I was that interested in getting fucked, I'd throw my DH a bone, and I don't even like him half the time. But at least he's nearby.

DH sucks enough life out of me. I couldn't handle an affair if I wanted to.

I can also make myself cum in like 3 seconds, so I don't really feel the need.

This.

This is why men have affairs.

[Anonymous]

Facebook. It's the affair goldmine. Want to know who your spouse is fucking? Login on iPhone and scroll to right, you'll see a list of "favorites". Those are the people they FB message the post. If all people of another gender that aren't family then be very suspicious. Chances are he's slept with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:not asking why, but how is it done

When you start talking to another parent and realize that you both have the same life. Kids that you love, but spouses that provide no affection, no love, no intamacy, and no sex.

[Anonymous]

My STBX started his at work. New girl. Medium sized company. He's an executive. He flirted. Happy hours. Witty banter at work. She flirted back. More happy hours. They shady bounced back to her place. He moved her into his group. Made her a ton of money. Work trips together.

I find out years later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Facebook. It's the affair goldmine. Want to know who your spouse is fucking? Login on iPhone and scroll to right, you'll see a list of "favorites". Those are the people they FB message the post. If all people of another gender that aren't family then be very suspicious. Chances are he's slept with her.

I tried is on my FB on my iPhone. I don't know how it comes up with that list of favorites but there are people on there that I never message or haven't done so in over a year. I wouldn't use this as a tip off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Facebook. It's the affair goldmine. Want to know who your spouse is fucking? Login on iPhone and scroll to right, you'll see a list of "favorites". Those are the people they FB message the post. If all people of another gender that aren't family then be very suspicious. Chances are he's slept with her.

I tried is on my FB on my iPhone. I don't know how it comes up with that list of favorites but there are people on there that I never message or haven't done so in over a year. I wouldn't use this as a tip off.

I am a DH and I have females that are in my FB favorites that I am friends with and I have never had any other kind of relationship with.. So don't think that just because a member of the opposite sex is on your S/O FB favorites that they are sleeping with them.