+1. Talking about kids with another parent is a safe zone. When that turns into talking about marital problems with a member of the opposite sex, that's a danger zone. |
| Take any random group of parents, 50% of the people are unhappy sexually, 40% are bored or have outgrown each other, and 10% are happy at present. So, take your shots, you have a good chance! |
| Of those who do not act on separating or divorcing...I would break it down this way 75% would change things if they could (without hurting each other or the kids) and 15% are reasonably happy with each other and their lives and 10% are genuinely happy. If you part of the 15% you are lucky indeedy! |
This is why men have affairs. After their wives have suckered the. Into having a or multiple kids they want nothing to do with them. As to how - the gym, Facebook and a couple of online dating sites that cater to this demographic are all good places. |