Special in what sense? Are they like Harvard? Absolutely not, but for a kid who wants or needs extra attention or a certain type of learning or sense of community, they are probably special. Maybe your kid is perfect and doesn’t want or need that type of environment. Good for you. For some kids, the excel and get a great education whereas they might in a larger, less personal environment. For some kids, it’s the difference between getting a degree or not. I’d say that’s pretty special for those kids. But of course, your kid is perfect so they are not for you. God forbid DCUM talk about good schools for kids that don’t take 10+ APs or score 1500+ on the SAT. I pity your child if your view of education is really this narrow minded, but I suspect you are a troll. |
That’s an excellent answer to a question that NO ONE ASKED. |
You took ONE class. Means nothing. |
The problem with your argument, which I have seen time and again on this website, is that you’re making it only after your kid wasn’t good enough to get in to one of the top schools. Had they been, you would be making a completely different argument. Own it. |
| Many are obsessed with a school like Harvard and I get it. But as great as Harvard is, it isn't always the best fit for all top students. My nephew just graduated from Harvard but sadly didn't enjoy his college years. He actually wanted to go to a top LAC that he felt was a better fit for his personality but his parents vetoed that. He did well at Harvard, graduating magna cum laude with honors, so academics was not the issue. However, as we all know (or should know), college is not only about academics. |
Ah, so we get to the heart of the matter. The obsessed anti-SLAC poster is a parent who is just now figuring out that paying for a big college doesn’t give her child the ticket into wealth that she had assumed she’d get. And she is freaking out, so rather pathetically hopes that denigrating SLACs in an anonymous forum will stop hiring managers from valuing SLAC degrees because she correctly understands that hiring managers don’t value big name degrees the same way any more. She also doesn’t understand that SLAC alumni networks are much, much tighter than what I had from HYS. I have to say that I adore how petty she is in that she continually drops the S from SLAC in her posts because sometimes it stands for “selective” and that makes her blood pressure skyrocket. Very entertaining. |
NP. You are such a sad, sad person. I turned down a top ten school for one outside of the top 200. I have never once regretted that choice. I’d make it again tomorrow. There are plenty of people in the world who find your way of thinking to be horrifying and reductive. Anecdotally I am hearing of more very top students turning their backs on the highest-ranked schools because they are now filled with people like you. They want brilliance and intellectual freedom, not grubby strivers. |
| I have one child at a top 10 USNWR ranked National University and one at a top Liberal Arts College. Each has its benefits and drawback. We are fortunate that students have these options in the US. It all depends on what works best for the particular student. There's no need to denigrate one or the other. |
You clearly suffer from mental impairment as you cannot make the distinction between generational wealth and upper-middle-income wage earners. Here's a hint - inheriting a shabby 100 year old home from grandpa is not generational wealth. Not only do I come from generational wealth, I attended a SLAC. So go on and and describe what a SLAC does to me. You sound like the exact type of middle-income striver that goes to SLACs and comes out with a barista job. |
There is more than one “anti” poster. Just so you know that. |
No, you didn’t. |
As the PP stated (attended SLAC undergrad and Harvard Law), not all schools are a fit. SLAC are filled with kids who want to learn and are not just at college as a "goal oriented task". Many kids are miserable at top universities. IMO, kids should attend where they fit the best---smart kids will do well anywhere, but will go much further in life if they are happy and thriving and it's hard to do that if you are miserable/don't fit in |
In fact, I did. I am also precisely correct that you are terribly sad person. I truly hope you do not have children. |
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It would be refreshing to have the parent of a liberal arts college student post on here words to the effect of “I really wanted my kid to get into a top-ranked school, but it wasn’t to be. Having said that, I think they are happy at the school they are attending and seem to be getting a solid education. And that’s all that matters to me.”
That is so much better than “my kid did not get into a top ranked school, but went somewhere else and they’re getting a better education and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.” Because that’s just BS. |
Sure, there are two of them, and they are both equally unhinged. But the one who can’t bring herself to type SLAC is particularly entertaining. |