Exactly. Disgusting. It’s not an incident. It’s a double murder homicide where two innocent people are victims and dead. A child is motherless. This is disgusting and disturbing how that other poster trivializes and normalizes this double murder. A parking ticket is an incident. This is murder with two real victims. May they rest in peace. May the families suffering rest in peace and find justice. May that little girl find strength as she grows without a mom as she was left with a terrible inheritance of family trauma now. |
Calm yourself. Clearly there are people who don’t think two innocent people died, but only one. I called it an incident because I don’t know what else to call it. I don’t know what happened, and unlike so many of you, I don’t jump to judgement or conclusions. Instead I will await trial and look at the facts when they are presented. And I can’t believe I am being forced to quote the dictionary, but the second definition of incident: violent event, such as a fracas or assault. Maybe you should look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself why you have no sense of empathy |
Empathy would be: Not moving the Au Pair into Mommy and Daddy’s bedroom Not putting pictures of Daddy and Au Pair in frames next to Mommy and Daddy’s bed Not brining a child into a home where she can either see something horrible happening to mommy or be victim herself to whatever horror is about to happen inside her home. There is some empathy to think about. |
Empathy for BB??!! Who not only moved his affair partner into his dead wifes room, but has gotten 3 speeding tickets including a reckless driving, endangering the lives of others? |
Your writing is very odd, distinctive and immature. Ex” Buttbuddy”, “be quiet” , “Calm yourself” It’s just a matter of time |
I’ve wondered if the repeat “Mommy” poster might be a family member. It’s very specific and intimate way to repeatedly refer to her. |
Tick tock, Tick tock. |
Have you wondered? Seems you do a lot of wondering these days… |
Which posts are referring to as mommy posters? Most in our area are concerned about this regardless of gender or being parents or not. We all want resolution. The whole thing is bizarre. |
"ButtBuddy" here. That's not me you're yelling at. I haven't posted in a long while, since there's nothing of value to be gained by arguing with "anonymous" people on the internet. Despite my many many hints that I wasn't a woman, you kept accusing me of having an affair with BB. I tried to make as obvious as possible but it kept sailing over your head. Hope that helps. |
There are repeated posts that refer to the little girl and her “mommy”. I am a mommy too but I would never refer to someone else’s “mommy.” Maybe it’s just me who finds the term to be more intimate (that is, when I read posts that refer to the little girl’s mommy, or to mommy’s bedroom, etc), it sounded personal to me, like someone who would have been very close to CB and observed the mommy relationship in order to refer to her that way. As opposed to using the term mother. I was only trying to remark on the feeling of connection to CB I picked up on in the language. Not meaning to make any judgments or negative comments about any of the posters here, their gender, or their parental status. |
DP, I've referred to the tragic loss of the little girl's mommy and I have no connection to any of the parties. I think you are reaching there. 2.5 months to go until AP's trial. I still think her lawyer being paid by BB is a conflict to possibly influence her not to take a plea deal that could impact VA's case against him. |
Same. I have no connection and used word mommy and little girl. It’s a devastating double-murder that upset our community even if we didn’t know any of them. |
I started the "big momma" and "tick tock" thing.
I have no connection with the murderer BB or his victims. |
BB is a suspect for the love of Christ. I think he's guilty but he's not a convicted murderer. Most of you who post here are the reason why mob mentality exists and prays among the weakest individuals in our society |