Things rude houseguests do, a vent:

Anonymous
Can you lasagna people start your own thread?
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Anonymous wrote:Pulling up in a new Mercedes SUV with their 4 kids and all they brought was a cheap-o Kroger pumpkin pie. My husband and I spent over $1000 on this spread!


Buying a new Mercedes SUV probably leaves very little disposable income. Try to have more compassion and understanding.


We have a Mercedes SUV. I usually bring dessert to dinner whenever we are invited. Is a dessert insufficient to bring to a dinner party?

We host all the time and I don't count on guests bringing dishes. I am preparing to feed my guests. They are welcome to bring something but don't have to. Most people bring dessert or alcohol.

We take alcohol if I can't get to Wegmens or Whole Foods to pick up a dessert.


Hell of a lot of difference between a Wegman's or Whole Foods pie and a Kroger one.


OK, I have never been to a Krogers. Don't think they have them by where I live. Is it so different than a Giant or Shoppers?


It's related to Ralphs on the West coast. Not sure if it's related to Giant but it's probably about that level. It's a giant supermarket chain in the south


I still don't see the big deal. I bought an apple pie and pumpkin pie from Wegmens. I think the apple pie was $10 and pumpkin pie was $9.
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Anonymous wrote:Turn on the TV during a meal without asking first. Decide they're going to just "whip something up" in the kitchen when they've been fed breakfast and lunch and Thanksgiving dinner preparations are underway. Make cellphone calls from the middle of a public area of the house while others are chatting. Announce that they never like x,y, and z while watching the host prepare x,y, and z.

Feel free to add to my list and vent.


None of this would bother me. I guess because I am not some anal person who expect house-guests to behave like they are beholden to me. My house guests can help themselves to any food and drink they want, borrow my car, sleep late, nap, order take out, do their laundry, expect new tolietaries, bath sheets and fresh bed linens etc. They can tell me their dietary restrictions and they can come shopping or sightseeing with me.



Now I'm getting paranoid. I hate stuffing and cranberry sauce. If I say I am not a fan of this, does that make me a rude guest? I eat most of everything else.
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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Pulling up in a new Mercedes SUV with their 4 kids and all they brought was a cheap-o Kroger pumpkin pie. My husband and I spent over $1000 on this spread!


Buying a new Mercedes SUV probably leaves very little disposable income. Try to have more compassion and understanding.


We have a Mercedes SUV. I usually bring dessert to dinner whenever we are invited. Is a dessert insufficient to bring to a dinner party?

We host all the time and I don't count on guests bringing dishes. I am preparing to feed my guests. They are welcome to bring something but don't have to. Most people bring dessert or alcohol.

We take alcohol if I can't get to Wegmens or Whole Foods to pick up a dessert.


Hell of a lot of difference between a Wegman's or Whole Foods pie and a Kroger one.


OK, I have never been to a Krogers. Don't think they have them by where I live. Is it so different than a Giant or Shoppers?


It's related to Ralphs on the West coast. Not sure if it's related to Giant but it's probably about that level. It's a giant supermarket chain in the south


I still don't see the big deal. I bought an apple pie and pumpkin pie from Wegmens. I think the apple pie was $10 and pumpkin pie was $9.


As someone who has been to both many times I can tell you there's a big difference. Wegmans has great bakery items. I actually know people in the south who refuse to shop at Kroger at all and will only go to HEB, Central Market or others. I personally like Kroger but I would never, ever get a pie from there
Anonymous
This thread could have been great, but instead it turned into the worst thread ever. Thanks Lasagne Ladies.
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Anonymous wrote:This thread could have been great, but instead it turned into the worst thread ever. Thanks Lasagne Ladies.


Agreed
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Anonymous wrote:This thread could have been great, but instead it turned into the worst thread ever. Thanks Lasagne Ladies.


Agreed


Try changing the subject.
Anonymous
House guests who let their kids raise hell, kick down pressure baby gates (taking a chunk out of the wall), spill food all over the family room, jump on furniture. When we ask them to stop, they ignore us and so do the parents. It was terrible.
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Anonymous wrote:House guests who let their kids raise hell, kick down pressure baby gates (taking a chunk out of the wall), spill food all over the family room, jump on furniture. When we ask them to stop, they ignore us and so do the parents. It was terrible.


Same goes for people who bring their pets over to terrorize everyone
Anonymous
colleagues (who you barely know) that you run into at a vineyard and ask them to attend a low key barbecue. She gets so drunk, lays on the dog bed on living room floor, baring her ass, and husband just keeps on talking. We thought they'd never go home.
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Anonymous wrote:This thread could have been great, but instead it turned into the worst thread ever. Thanks Lasagne Ladies.


Agreed


Try changing the subject.


it was tried several times, chiefy
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Anonymous wrote:House guests who let their kids raise hell, kick down pressure baby gates (taking a chunk out of the wall), spill food all over the family room, jump on furniture. When we ask them to stop, they ignore us and so do the parents. It was terrible.


I would have asked them to leave. No joke.
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Anonymous wrote:This thread could have been great, but instead it turned into the worst thread ever. Thanks Lasagne Ladies.


Agreed


Try changing the subject.


it was tried several times, chiefy


Well you're not annoying at all. NP.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:House guests who let their kids raise hell, kick down pressure baby gates (taking a chunk out of the wall), spill food all over the family room, jump on furniture. When we ask them to stop, they ignore us and so do the parents. It was terrible.


I would have asked them to leave. No joke.


She's my best friend for over 20 years. We were shocked by the behavior and felt disrespected by their actions.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread could have been great, but instead it turned into the worst thread ever. Thanks Lasagne Ladies.


Agreed


Try changing the subject.


it was tried several times, chiefy


eh, I'd rather talk lasagna, bucko.
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