Love is Blind Season 4!

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Anonymous wrote:Chelsea is definitely trying to over love to fix problems. Kwame isn't really interested in her and she is not doing anything to help that. He is lamenting the loss of community and instead of trying to help him find community, she just doubles down on "loving" him. She is needy and wants to be validated and then gives 200% to loving back and it feels suffocating.

Brett and Tiffany seem genuine.

Bliss loooves to hold over Zack's head that he picked someone else..I get that it hurts and was embarrassing but she brings it up so much. She is still clearly processing it and isn't 100% sure how she feels and uses it to shut him down. She needs to stop doing that before it alienates him.

Micah is not interested in Paul at all. She is doing this for fame. I agree with the person who said that she got the apartment in Seattle so that she could be on the show. I like Paul and am afraid about what someone said about him following White Supremacists. His mom seemed wonderful and caring. Ugh.

I feel like this is a symptom of the show's timeline more than Bliss not being able to let it go. As they told her Dad they met 20 days ago. So the PODs were like 7-10 days. Mexico was like 2-3 days. And then they got together, got engaged and moved in together sometime in the remaining 7-11 days. That is NOT a lot of time to get over something like that. And I think Zack is fine waiting her out here.

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Whoever said that they think Kwame says yes because his siblings showed up. Nah, that's not a sign, really. SK's mom was there, and he said no i think Kwame is a no still.

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I think people are too hard on Zack. He is clearly neurodiverse, but otherwise he ain't all that terrible. I also don't think he choose Irina because he thought she was going to be hot. Even after the reveal he seem d into her. He wanted to kiss her, and really tried to get things going on Mexico. He pulled the plug when he realized it wasn't working and she was recoiling.

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Anonymous wrote:I loooove the support that Brett has shown to Marshall throughout this process. He is a very good person!

Yes, I think we're just a little worried he seems too good to be true! Such a wise and thoughtful man, incredibly rare on these kinds of shows.

Yea, I’m sorta in love w Brett. What a dream of a man!

Totally agree. And Tiffany is an amazing equal. Beautiful, successful, straightforward, and supportive. We have not seen one lick of drama from her either. Just both purely open, honest, mature, and respectful.

Agreed on all the above! I said to my husband that I will be super pissed (i.e. crushed) if they don't make it to the alter/or get married. I loved the scene where she was crying from the stress of it at all (catching up on work + wedding) and he just held her.

Also, they are both beautiful on the outside. They seem like such catches so it's kind of mystifying how they were both still single (good looking, have good jobs, and have their shit together, seems to have friends/squads, seem to be nice persons).

As an older single person, your comment is kind of insulting.

Like anyone who is left over by a certain age must be defective...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Chelsea is definitely trying to over love to fix problems. Kwame isn't really interested in her and she is not doing anything to help that. He is lamenting the loss of community and instead of trying to help him find community, she just doubles down on "loving" him. She is needy and wants to be validated and then gives 200% to loving back and it feels suffocating.

Brett and Tiffany seem genuine.

Bliss loooves to hold over Zack's head that he picked someone else..I get that it hurts and was embarrassing but she brings it up so much. She is still clearly processing it and isn't 100% sure how she feels and uses it to shut him down. She needs to stop doing that before it alienates him.

Micah is not interested in Paul at all. She is doing this for fame. I agree with the person who said that she got the apartment in Seattle so that she could be on the show. I like Paul and am afraid about what someone said about him following White Supremacists. His mom seemed wonderful and caring. Ugh.

Micah is def not my favorite but she has Seattle tagged as home in quite a few 2020 IG posts including a tag to her dad on Father’s Day (pre LIB). She also is in WSU gear at a game in 2018. She has definitely lived in Seattle region prior to LIB.

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Anonymous wrote:Chelsea is definitely trying to over love to fix problems. Kwame isn't really interested in her and she is not doing anything to help that. He is lamenting the loss of community and instead of trying to help him find community, she just doubles down on "loving" him. She is needy and wants to be validated and then gives 200% to loving back and it feels suffocating.

Brett and Tiffany seem genuine.

Bliss loooves to hold over Zack's head that he picked someone else..I get that it hurts and was embarrassing but she brings it up so much. She is still clearly processing it and isn't 100% sure how she feels and uses it to shut him down. She needs to stop doing that before it alienates him.

Micah is not interested in Paul at all. She is doing this for fame. I agree with the person who said that she got the apartment in Seattle so that she could be on the show. I like Paul and am afraid about what someone said about him following White Supremacists. His mom seemed wonderful and caring. Ugh.

Micah is def not my favorite but she has Seattle tagged as home in quite a few 2020 IG posts including a tag to her dad on Father’s Day (pre LIB). She also is in WSU gear at a game in 2018. She has definitely lived in Seattle region prior to LIB.

She graduated from WSU and has been in Seattle region since. Looks like she now works for SalesForce and likely started splitting her time in AZ post COVID like many young people have that have remote job and no responsibilities.

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Anonymous wrote:Chelsea is definitely trying to over love to fix problems. Kwame isn't really interested in her and she is not doing anything to help that. He is lamenting the loss of community and instead of trying to help him find community, she just doubles down on "loving" him. She is needy and wants to be validated and then gives 200% to loving back and it feels suffocating.

Brett and Tiffany seem genuine.

Bliss loooves to hold over Zack's head that he picked someone else..I get that it hurts and was embarrassing but she brings it up so much. She is still clearly processing it and isn't 100% sure how she feels and uses it to shut him down. She needs to stop doing that before it alienates him.

Micah is not interested in Paul at all. She is doing this for fame. I agree with the person who said that she got the apartment in Seattle so that she could be on the show. I like Paul and am afraid about what someone said about him following White Supremacists. His mom seemed wonderful and caring. Ugh.

I feel like this is a symptom of the show's timeline more than Bliss not being able to let it go. As they told her Dad they met 20 days ago. So the PODs were like 7-10 days. Mexico was like 2-3 days. And then they got together, got engaged and moved in together sometime in the remaining 7-11 days. That is NOT a lot of time to get over something like that. And I think Zack is fine waiting her out here.

I agree. We also have to be cognizant of what they're deciding to show via editing.

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Has anyone else noticed that since the honeymoon they aren't really showing the physical side of the relationships? Has there been any indication that Zach and Bliss have been physically intimate? If they do get married, I hope they get a honeymoon!

I liked when Tiffany asked Brett about money - I wish they would show these conversations more. I still remember the Barnett/Amber discussion from their season.

I agree that Brett/Tiffany preview is likely a fakeout - she's probably crying when saying how this is the first time she's felt blah, blah and so lucky to have found Brett, etc.

Good point about Kwame and Chelsea potentially being edited that way to create more drama but both may say yes. Still pondering Kwame also trying out for MAFS. Can he really not find a relationship on his own? Does he really want to be reality tv famous?

Also agree that Micah/Paul has been pretty boring. They seem so "positive" about each other but it seems so unlikely that the relationship would work due to logistics, compatibility, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:Has anyone else noticed that since the honeymoon they aren't really showing the physical side of the relationships? Has there been any indication that Zach and Bliss have been physically intimate? If they do get married, I hope they get a honeymoon!

I liked when Tiffany asked Brett about money - I wish they would show these conversations more. I still remember the Barnett/Amber discussion from their season.

I agree that Brett/Tiffany preview is likely a fakeout - she's probably crying when saying how this is the first time she's felt blah, blah and so lucky to have found Brett, etc.

Good point about Kwame and Chelsea potentially being edited that way to create more drama but both may say yes. Still pondering Kwame also trying out for MAFS. Can he really not find a relationship on his own? Does he really want to be reality tv famous?

Also agree that Micah/Paul has been pretty boring. They seem so "positive" about each other but it seems so unlikely that the relationship would work due to logistics, compatibility, etc.

Zach keeps.kissing Bliss including when he has food in his mouth (yuck), so I assume they are doing more when they're alone, unless he's just being extra for the cameras.

I loved Barnett and Amber's intensity. They had some deeeep convos. Chelsea and Kwame would have been our only opportunity to see something similar, but either the cameras never captured it or Chelsea's avoidance couldn't get them where they needed to go in terms of depth.

How do you know Kwame tried out for MAFS? I feel like Kwame prefers white women, but is too insecure to admit it or approach them so he wants a show to do the matchmaking. He spoke earlier about always feeling judged when he meets people. And I noticed that when Chelsea introduced him to her family she leaned in heavy with his accomplishments (professional soccer player, head of business development, MBA).

Jackie and Marshall were raw and real like Amber/Barnett (similarlove triangle even), but Jackie proved to be an awful person.

I think we don't see emotion/physicality with Paul and Micah because they are faking it. Those nervous giggles through every scene feel obnoxious. Even Raven and SK gave us more passion as their season progressed and he was a complete dirt bag.

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How do you know Kwame tried out for MAFS? I feel like Kwame prefers white women, but is too insecure to admit it or approach them so he wants a show to do the matchmaking. He spoke earlier about always feeling judged when he meets people. And I noticed that when Chelsea introduced him to her family she leaned in heavy with his accomplishments (professional soccer player, head of business development, MBA).

It was popping up on Twitter earlier: https://www.etonline.com/love-is-blind-star-kwame-previously-competed-on-another-famous-dating-show-202216.

Kwame's mother obviously isn't into the whole quick set-up idea. Shouldn't he have talked to her about going on these shows beforehand? Maybe he knew she'd disapprove and even brought it up in his auditions as an angle for drama.

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How do you know Kwame tried out for MAFS? I feel like Kwame prefers white women, but is too insecure to admit it or approach them so he wants a show to do the matchmaking. He spoke earlier about always feeling judged when he meets people. And I noticed that when Chelsea introduced him to her family she leaned in heavy with his accomplishments (professional soccer player, head of business development, MBA).

It was popping up on Twitter earlier: https://www.etonline.com/love-is-blind-star-kwame-previously-competed-on-another-famous-dating-show-202216.

Kwame's mother obviously isn't into the whole quick set-up idea. Shouldn't he have talked to her about going on these shows beforehand? Maybe he knew she'd disapprove and even brought it up in his auditions as an angle for drama.

Wow! Season 10 was based in DC though. So how did he end up in Portland/Seattle?!?!? I think he's having an identity crisis!

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How do you know Kwame tried out for MAFS? I feel like Kwame prefers white women, but is too insecure to admit it or approach them so he wants a show to do the matchmaking. He spoke earlier about always feeling judged when he meets people. And I noticed that when Chelsea introduced him to her family she leaned in heavy with his accomplishments (professional soccer player, head of business development, MBA).

It was popping up on Twitter earlier: https://www.etonline.com/love-is-blind-star-kwame-previously-competed-on-another-famous-dating-show-202216.

Kwame's mother obviously isn't into the whole quick set-up idea. Shouldn't he have talked to her about going on these shows beforehand? Maybe he knew she'd disapprove and even brought it up in his auditions as an angle for drama.

Wow! Season 10 was based in DC though. So how did he end up in Portland/Seattle?!?!? I think he's having an identity crisis!

I saw a tweet (not from him) that he's actually from the DMV and only recently moved to Portland.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Zach is such a poor judge of character. How can he not see Irina is a toxic person? The type to flip your world upside down in flames. He is so stupid!

He chose her because he didn’t think he deserved better. Bliss scared him away with her family and Dad talk. That’s what changed the tide in my opinion. She didn’t reassure him that he would be accepted and enough for her family. He’s been through a lot. Hoping Irina
takes it easy on him.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s not just Irina making comments about Zach. All the women said he’s creepy. I’m wondering if they’re all saying that because of how he was joking/testing them during their first chat saying that he was a stripper. It was a weird move IMO.

Was weird but I think he secretly wanted to see if they were mean and judgemental towards his mom and family

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If love is truly blind then why the heck don't these people look more inclusive? Shouldn't there be someone incredibly fat, ugly, weird looking, gay, or be clearly disabled?

The show has had all of this. Alexa was larger (though hot and generally good looking). Kwame is ugly. Irina is ugly. They had a gay guy on there season one, that was cruel, disingenuous and he was clearly on there for the wrong reasons (because love is honest and he was a liar). The woman Bartiste proposed to was short. Some of the people have been weird but they tend to be weeded out in the pods…a really inclusive show