Gorgeous 38 yr old doctor, mom of 3 found dead in NYC building lobby

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Pp here sorry for the typos typing on a smartphone for the grammar police

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Anonymous wrote:Something really rubs me the wrong way about "gorgeous" being the first work in your "headline." How is that at all relevant? Does it make it more tragic?

Rich successful and attractive makes it more tragic because they are worth more to society...

Gross!! That's what she was. What mother of 3 young kids goes out drugging at night? A decent parent would be home reading bedtime stories & snuggling in bed with the kiddos, not out acting reckless. This was not 'moms night out'. I hope to never know someone like this - she was a pos.
I had friends who did all of these things - before kids. I've never met someone who would do this with little ones at home and hope never to meet one.

If anyone sees themselves in this gal - get to a psychiatrist NOW

It's so sad that people are talking about this so much because it 'hits close to home '? Seriously ?

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Anonymous wrote:It makes you wonder how many other women who appear to be perfect aren't really. She's the kind of woman that I can see myself having obsessed about if our kids went to the same school -- as in "How come I barely manage to take a shower and get my kids to school and myself to work and she always looks so perky and thin, and beautiful? How does she have time for friends and going out and do it all?"

Also, the kind of woman my husband would likely pick out at the PTA function and use to taunt me. "How come you don't look like that? She manages to earn a ton of money, has great kids and is thin and beautiful. Look how fast she lost her baby weight!"

I suspect there is one of these at most schools and that she serves the same function in relation to the other parents and other parent's marriages.

Your husband taunts you with this stuff ? Why did you marry a total asshole? How can you stand that?!
Aren't you worried of how your kids will turn out given that he's a supreme stressful dick?

None of those gals are perfect - some of them are nutty as hell, vacuous, boring, stressed out mean imbeciles.


Woman - you need a new life, better friends & some perspective.

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I come from a family of doctors and am married to one as well. There are plenty of doctors who use recreational drugs.
My own brother and his work friends are high many weekends (pot and coke) and they're all ER doctors.

Not at a decent ER. Not a chance

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Anonymous wrote:
I come from a family of doctors and am married to one as well. There are plenty of doctors who use recreational drugs.
My own brother and his work friends are high many weekends (pot and coke) and they're all ER doctors.

Not at a decent ER. Not a chance

I dated a plastic surgeon that was doing a stint at an ER and all of his friends - the "Persian Surgeons" as they referred to themselves - did drugs, mostly pills and cocaine, and then gave themselves IVs every morning. Super, super, super common for young doctors, even very smart ones, even very good ones.

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Anonymous wrote:Pp here sorry for the typos typing on a smartphone for the grammar police

What really matters here is how gorgeous she was.

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Also, the kind of woman my husband would likely pick out at the PTA function and use to taunt me. "How come you don't look like that? She manages to earn a ton of money, has great kids and is thin and beautiful. Look how fast she lost her baby weight!"

I suspect there is one of these at most schools and that she serves the same function in relation to the other parents and other parent's marriages.

Wow! Your husband is a dick. You should call him out on that. Alternately, you could talk about how hot the other dads are and tell him you want to have sex with them.

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Anonymous wrote:
I come from a family of doctors and am married to one as well. There are plenty of doctors who use recreational drugs.
My own brother and his work friends are high many weekends (pot and coke) and they're all ER doctors.

Not at a decent ER. Not a chance

The prologue of this episode has some stats on drug use among medical professionals. Up to 20% used within the last year, 3-5% are high at any given time while treating patients.
http://m.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/524/transcript

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Is cocaine supposed to give you some euphoric type of high or something? I've never done drugs or knew anyone (if they were using, I was clueless) so I'm not being funny with my question.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I come from a family of doctors and am married to one as well. There are plenty of doctors who use recreational drugs.
My own brother and his work friends are high many weekends (pot and coke) and they're all ER doctors.

Not at a decent ER. Not a chance

I dated a plastic surgeon that was doing a stint at an ER and all of his friends - the "Persian Surgeons" as they referred to themselves - did drugs, mostly pills and cocaine, and then gave themselves IVs every morning. Super, super, super common for young doctors, even very smart ones, even very good ones.

That's disgusting. What is wrong with them? This can not be typical.

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Anonymous wrote:Is cocaine supposed to give you some euphoric type of high or something? I've never done drugs or knew anyone (if they were using, I was clueless) so I'm not being funny with my question.

In my (very) limited experience the addicts become arrogant azzholes. Mean and heartless. They might be the sweetest people in the world without that crap in their system but the minute they snort that sh*t they become nasty jerks.

One of the reasons I was never tempted by that stuff. It is very bad news.

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The $1.2M home looks nice, why so cheap though?...

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She is not that pretty, just OK, with long blond hair, I guess that bumps her up a notch.


Anyway, people who use drugs should learn CPR! They are always the last to know.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I come from a family of doctors and am married to one as well. There are plenty of doctors who use recreational drugs.
My own brother and his work friends are high many weekends (pot and coke) and they're all ER doctors.

Not at a decent ER. Not a chance

I dated a plastic surgeon that was doing a stint at an ER and all of his friends - the "Persian Surgeons" as they referred to themselves - did drugs, mostly pills and cocaine, and then gave themselves IVs every morning. Super, super, super common for young doctors, even very smart ones, even very good ones.

That's disgusting. What is wrong with them? This can not be typical.

It's not typical

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I come from a family of doctors and am married to one as well. There are plenty of doctors who use recreational drugs.
My own brother and his work friends are high many weekends (pot and coke) and they're all ER doctors.

Not at a decent ER. Not a chance

I dated a plastic surgeon that was doing a stint at an ER and all of his friends - the "Persian Surgeons" as they referred to themselves - did drugs, mostly pills and cocaine, and then gave themselves IVs every morning. Super, super, super common for young doctors, even very smart ones, even very good ones.

When -- in the 80s?