Going home hungry after birthday parties

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

Then offer up less and don't pretend to host a party. A party includes food, unless it's a frat party then it only includes drinks. If you're opposed to hosting a party and making your guests comfortable then don't say you throwing a party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

Seriously, did none of you go to parties when you were a child? In the '70s and '80s? With cake, ice cream, and lemonade? Maybe koolaid? Maybe Hi-C? And play games in someone's basement, and then go home? Did none of you have or attend parties like this? Nobody?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

Seriously, did none of you go to parties when you were a child? In the '70s and '80s? With cake, ice cream, and lemonade? Maybe koolaid? Maybe Hi-C? And play games in someone's basement, and then go home? Did none of you have or attend parties like this? Nobody?

Even if we did, then why is that better? I like serving pizza and cake. We hosted a party last Sunday at laser tag from 2-4. They set the schedule, and it was pizza, game, cake game. Some of the kids there seemed absolutely ravenous and ate 2-3 pieces of pizza plus cake. It would have sucked it they had come that hungry, and I had no food for them. Even the parents were pretty happy there was food, and most of them had pizza and cake too. We are all running around on the weekends from activity to activity plus errands. Give everyone a break, and offer food at your party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

Agreed. When the idea hits you to have a party, why would you start out all negative and think "I won't do this, I won't do that." If you are hosting a party and in the party planning spirit, you think about all the things you can and should do. What would make everyone comfortable? What would the child like? What did you like at parties you have been to? Not, "what's the least I can do and call it a party? Grumble Grumble." If there's no party spirit, no hospitality, no warmth, DO NOT THROW A PARTY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

Seriously, did none of you go to parties when you were a child? In the '70s and '80s? With cake, ice cream, and lemonade? Maybe koolaid? Maybe Hi-C? And play games in someone's basement, and then go home? Did none of you have or attend parties like this? Nobody?

Even if we did, then why is that better? I like serving pizza and cake. We hosted a party last Sunday at laser tag from 2-4. They set the schedule, and it was pizza, game, cake game. Some of the kids there seemed absolutely ravenous and ate 2-3 pieces of pizza plus cake. It would have sucked it they had come that hungry, and I had no food for them. Even the parents were pretty happy there was food, and most of them had pizza and cake too. We are all running around on the weekends from activity to activity plus errands. Give everyone a break, and offer food at your party.

We'll just have to agree to disagree. You will get an invitation and then you can decide whether or not you'd like to come to our crappy parties. If not, no harm, no foul, but that's just how we do our parties. We'll miss you, but will still have fun! Bye!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

Seriously, did none of you go to parties when you were a child? In the '70s and '80s? With cake, ice cream, and lemonade? Maybe koolaid? Maybe Hi-C? And play games in someone's basement, and then go home? Did none of you have or attend parties like this? Nobody?

Grew up in the 80s and went to a ton of birthday parties. We didn't have basements but parties were generally in the back yard or the community room of whatever complex people lived in. There was always food. Always. Cake came after the food.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

Then offer up less and don't pretend to host a party. A party includes food, unless it's a frat party then it only includes drinks. If you're opposed to hosting a party and making your guests comfortable then don't say you throwing a party.

Agreed. Grow up and play hostess, or don't bother to have anyone over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

I totally agree. The pp is just a poor host. You don't have to do pizza but stop being cheap and serve food.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

I wouldn't be using this time to make a stance. You know, the time when people have taken time out of their day to attend. When they have likely brought a gift.
But you go ahead, just know I will think you are a cheap bastard.

What's wrong with having ample food in hand?
Control issues much?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

Agreed

[Anonymous]

This is the weirdest thread I've ever read. My child does not need a freakin' meal at a party, unless it's held at lunch or dinner time. Cake and juice is more than enough. Surprisingly, I can go several hours without feeding my face.

Seriously, how fat are you people? Are you the same moms that carry snacks and drinks everywhere you go? An afternoon party certainly does not require that the hosts provide a meal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you that cheap that you can't rode a few pizzas?
I don't care what time of day the party is... Order pizza cheapskate.

It's not a question of being able to afford it or not. Who can't afford a few pizzas? It's about saying, "ENOUGH! It's all too much!" An afternoon party from 2:30-4:00 (or, as some other PP said, anytime between 1-5) does NOT call for more food and I am not going to give in to the constant pressure for more, more, and more in this society. I am not doing it.

If you truly felt this way, you wouldn't be having a party in the first place. You are using sanctimony as a cover for being cheap and thoughtless.

Seriously, did none of you go to parties when you were a child? In the '70s and '80s? With cake, ice cream, and lemonade? Maybe koolaid? Maybe Hi-C? And play games in someone's basement, and then go home? Did none of you have or attend parties like this? Nobody?

So what if we did. It's not 1970 anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the weirdest thread I've ever read. My child does not need a freakin' meal at a party, unless it's held at lunch or dinner time. Cake and juice is more than enough. Surprisingly, I can go several hours without feeding my face.

Seriously, how fat are you people? Are you the same moms that carry snacks and drinks everywhere you go? An afternoon party certainly does not require that the hosts provide a meal.

I know! I truly cannot BELIEVE how many people feel so strongly about this?!?!?!?!?? It is just the oddest issue to me!!! It is like you are taking their binky away from them, or something, if they cannot have access to food or drinks for 1.5-2 hours. They are PANICKING!!

[Anonymous]

And the weird thing is: etiquette truly does not demand that you serve food at occasions hosted outside of meal times. So, they are the ones who are not correct, and yet they are really choosing this as their hill to die on. It's truly one of the oddest threads I've read here on DCUM.