What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That this whole world whole life we lead is a LIE. ALL. OF. IT.
And I can't explain it to family or friends. So they think I'm crazy and I allow them to think that.
Hopefully I'll still be alive when the truth comes out. If not I'll still be free.

Like the Matrix or something?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DH has no idea I identified as bisexual when we married and now identify as a lesbian married to a man. He doesn’t even know I’m attracted to women. If we divorce (which we very well might because we don’t get along for reasons having nothing to do with my sexuality), I’ll never date another man again.

Um, ok... lol. Don't believe that for a second. You aren't being your true self, so you can't be authentic with him. Of course that causes issues and resentment on both sides over time.

Funnily, we have so many other issues that my sexuality doesn’t even rank in the top 10. He lied about/hid so much to get me to marry him. I’m talking his own untreated mental illness (that he refuses to treat), his sister’s raging drug addiction, his mom’s severe mental illness, his family’s racism. My secret is small potatoes in this hot mess.

I bet you did not ask him, so, actually, he did not lie.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That I can find anything about them online even things they don’t know. For example I have no things about my uncles ex-wife‘s family that even she has a children do not now because I’ve researched them on ancestry. Some are just individual facts like what country a great great great great great grandmother was from and others are scandals like a murder suicide in 1938 or the details of their mothers first marriage and her ex-husband‘s name and his obituary which includes details about his later life in a second family. Or how I know that one of my half siblings has a brother they don’t even know about from the other side of their family. They have a distant father, my mothers first husband, who I looked up.

So if you know me, I likely know more about you and your family’s ancestry then you do.

Oooh, I need to meet you! Do you know how to find out a woman's maiden name?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most of my friends and family could die tomorrow and, aside from maybe 20 people I'm close to, I'd feel so little about it that I would barely think to tell my wife if I found out they died and she didn't already know.

I am even worse: there are only two people in the world whose death would make me really grieve. And my living parent isn’t on the list.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:That I can find anything about them online even things they don’t know. For example I have no things about my uncles ex-wife‘s family that even she has a children do not now because I’ve researched them on ancestry. Some are just individual facts like what country a great great great great great grandmother was from and others are scandals like a murder suicide in 1938 or the details of their mothers first marriage and her ex-husband‘s name and his obituary which includes details about his later life in a second family. Or how I know that one of my half siblings has a brother they don’t even know about from the other side of their family. They have a distant father, my mothers first husband, who I looked up.

So if you know me, I likely know more about you and your family’s ancestry then you do.

Oooh, I need to meet you! Do you know how to find out a woman's maiden name?

The group Investigan Connection on Facebook can find ANYTHING. They are literally wizards

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has no idea I identified as bisexual when we married and now identify as a lesbian married to a man. He doesn’t even know I’m attracted to women. If we divorce (which we very well might because we don’t get along for reasons having nothing to do with my sexuality), I’ll never date another man again.

Um, ok... lol. Don't believe that for a second. You aren't being your true self, so you can't be authentic with him. Of course that causes issues and resentment on both sides over time.

Funnily, we have so many other issues that my sexuality doesn’t even rank in the top 10. He lied about/hid so much to get me to marry him. I’m talking his own untreated mental illness (that he refuses to treat), his sister’s raging drug addiction, his mom’s severe mental illness, his family’s racism. My secret is small potatoes in this hot mess.

I bet you did not ask him, so, actually, he did not lie.

You sound like someone’s miserable husband. How many women have rejected you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m liberal but voted for Trump the past 2 elections.

me, too. I voted Dem my whole life but i have secretly become sick of these folks. I am now fairly conservative except for being pro-choice.

None of my friends or family know this.

I voted for Hillary and Biden, but regret it. I’ll be voting for whomever the Republican nominee is in 2024 and only my husband knows.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That I can find anything about them online even things they don’t know. For example I have no things about my uncles ex-wife‘s family that even she has a children do not now because I’ve researched them on ancestry. Some are just individual facts like what country a great great great great great grandmother was from and others are scandals like a murder suicide in 1938 or the details of their mothers first marriage and her ex-husband‘s name and his obituary which includes details about his later life in a second family. Or how I know that one of my half siblings has a brother they don’t even know about from the other side of their family. They have a distant father, my mothers first husband, who I looked up.

So if you know me, I likely know more about you and your family’s ancestry then you do.

Oooh, I need to meet you! Do you know how to find out a woman's maiden name?

It's Williams.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That I can find anything about them online even things they don’t know. For example I have no things about my uncles ex-wife‘s family that even she has a children do not now because I’ve researched them on ancestry. Some are just individual facts like what country a great great great great great grandmother was from and others are scandals like a murder suicide in 1938 or the details of their mothers first marriage and her ex-husband‘s name and his obituary which includes details about his later life in a second family. Or how I know that one of my half siblings has a brother they don’t even know about from the other side of their family. They have a distant father, my mothers first husband, who I looked up.

So if you know me, I likely know more about you and your family’s ancestry then you do.

Oooh, I need to meet you! Do you know how to find out a woman's maiden name?

Very easy. Her relatives names come up on TruePeopleSearch.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hired a PI for two hours and he caught my husband cheating. It was the only time he was ever with this woman and I somehow had the intuition for the time/date/place where it would be.
I was only vaguely suspicious, or so I thought. And said to myself, if nothing comes of this then I'll consider myself crazy because there are no signs.
I wasn't crazy. Trust your gut ppl.

Not the only time he was with another woman.

Odds don't work that way.

Np, and agreed. PP tells herself that to make her feel better about being cheated on and to make him seem like less of a bad guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That this whole world whole life we lead is a LIE. ALL. OF. IT.
And I can't explain it to family or friends. So they think I'm crazy and I allow them to think that.
Hopefully I'll still be alive when the truth comes out. If not I'll still be free.

Please share more. I am super curious to hear what you know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was a total slacker in high school. It told me 6 years to graduate from college. I moved away, reinvented myself and I’m relatively successful.

What motivated you to change?

[Anonymous]

That my ex has over 20 children and is a serial rapist (claims only seven). He has been incarcerated over 30 times in multiple states, (at least ten) and gets away with it due to his connections, his demeanor (college educated, speaks multiple languages) his former military rank, and the fact that most charges are misdemeanors and felonies committed in states without statewide public court records systems. In the ones that are, there are at least 15 publicly available records of rape, assault, and other violent crimes. Most people assume a sob story about another pitiful single mom with a deadbeat dad. But I doubt I will ever tell anyone the full story of how he terrorrized me and others in ways that I still have nightmares about. His targets are all educated, financially stable women who he completely misleads and financially drains. I think we dont speak about it due to embarassment and having our names associated with this con-artist online for perpetuity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That my ex has over 20 children and is a serial rapist (claims only seven). He has been incarcerated over 30 times in multiple states, (at least ten) and gets away with it due to his connections, his demeanor (college educated, speaks multiple languages) his former military rank, and the fact that most charges are misdemeanors and felonies committed in states without statewide public court records systems. In the ones that are, there are at least 15 publicly available records of rape, assault, and other violent crimes. Most people assume a sob story about another pitiful single mom with a deadbeat dad. But I doubt I will ever tell anyone the full story of how he terrorrized me and others in ways that I still have nightmares about. His targets are all educated, financially stable women who he completely misleads and financially drains. I think we dont speak about it due to embarassment and having our names associated with this con-artist online for perpetuity.

Wow! It’s incredibly that that many people actually pressed charges. How did he lure you in/suck you dry?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was a total slacker in high school. It told me 6 years to graduate from college. I moved away, reinvented myself and I’m relatively successful.

Also I experimented with lots of drugs. Not heroin or anything but I tried coke a few times. smoked hash, took mushrooms and acid, and I still use cannabis.

Honey join the club! You just described half the people I know/grew up with!