Do you/have you worn a fake wedding ring to get guys to leave you alone?

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Anonymous wrote:I did when I was younger (and obviously still single). It doesn’t work. It deters the decent guys, and does nothing to stop the advances of creeps. So you get nothing BUT creeps hitting on you, usually married ones. They’re already cheating, so they figure if they see you out somewhere in a heavily single crowd, that you’re also down for cheating too.

Now that I’m older and now solidly in the cougar column, I leave my rings off so younger guys will hit on me. Sigh… I’m gonna cry when I hit 40.

I’m 46 and get hassled as much as I did when I was half this age. I wish I could experience the invisibility everyone promised I’d suffer at 40.

A lot of men will hit on any female whose hair isn’t grey and who isn’t grossly overweight.

Yep. Also women who get hit on a lot tend think of themselves as better looking than they really are. There was a study a few years back showing that women who are 7s or 8s get hit on much, much more frequently than 10s.

As long as we don’t miss an opportunity to put women down. That’s what’s most important here.

+1. PP is probably getting hit on because she looks good or seems friendly and fun. It’s not that deep.