Token Birthday Gift for Man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Easy. BJ.

This was definitely posted by a man!
lol 😝

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, you didn't need to say it when you sat down. I agree that was tacky of him to say. I always pick up the check on the third date but I don't say it off the bat!

Bit this was a gift, not a random date. Saying it upfront would've shown that OP was intentionally giving him a bday gift. As opposed to, "oh sure, I got this."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting

Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.

[Anonymous]

Did he take you out the first two times?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did he take you out the first two times?

It’s not about paying, it’s about the crassness of asking someone to pay for him. Tacky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did he take you out the first two times?

It’s not about paying, it’s about the crassness of asking someone to pay for him. Tacky.

Yep.

[Anonymous]

Have you seen him again, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting

Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.

I agree. I would have been turned off by that comment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you seen him again, OP?

OP here. No, I decided not to see him anymore. In addition to the rude comment he was super aggressive physically at the end of the date. Just not my cup of tea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you seen him again, OP?

OP here. No, I decided not to see him anymore. In addition to the rude comment he was super aggressive physically at the end of the date. Just not my cup of tea.

Oh no! Good call on not seeing him again. Better luck with the next guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting

Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.

Woman here. It's 2021, who cares if a woman pays. It's his birthday so you probably should have told him beforehand that you wanted to take him to dinner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you seen him again, OP?

OP here. No, I decided not to see him anymore. In addition to the rude comment he was super aggressive physically at the end of the date. Just not my cup of tea.

Eww. Such a turn off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you seen him again, OP?

OP here. No, I decided not to see him anymore. In addition to the rude comment he was super aggressive physically at the end of the date. Just not my cup of tea.

Did you tell him though?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting

Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.

Woman here. It's 2021, who cares if a woman pays. It's his birthday so you probably should have told him beforehand that you wanted to take him to dinner.

A man says another man's behavior is off and a woman swoops in to defend him and tell him he's wrong. You can't make this stuff up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting

Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.

Woman here. It's 2021, who cares if a woman pays. It's his birthday so you probably should have told him beforehand that you wanted to take him to dinner.

Yes it is 2021 and bad tact is bad tact regardless