Token Birthday Gift for Man
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Anonymous
| Bonsai Tree |
Anonymous
Damn. That would be awesome. I just turned 50 and would have love that. Sigh. |
Anonymous
| no gift. No card. Just say hbd. Don’t be too thirsty. |
Anonymous
| 3rd date… wish him happy birthday with a hug, pay him extra attention at dinner, and offer to treat. If he won’t let you then maybe take him to drinks or dessert after. Just enjoy the time. |
Anonymous
OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting 
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Anonymous
I would have picked up the tab since it was his birthday. |
Anonymous
+1 he treated the first two dates, pick up the tab lady. |
Anonymous
| Tactless comment on his part. |
Anonymous
| OP here. To be clear, I planned on picking up the tab, he just didn’t give me a chance too. |
Anonymous
Yep, that's tacky. It's kind of like if you went out with a girlfriend for her birthday- she would never say that when the check came out of politeness so I don't think he gets a pass unless he was spectacularly drunk. |
Anonymous
Why didn't you just say its on me right at the start? Were you waiting to surprise him when the check came?! |
Anonymous
Wow. That is presumptuous of him. And rude. EVEN though you were planning on paying. Wow. Hope he didn't get that BJ. |
Anonymous
I agree. You should've said it as soon as you sat down. Or even when you were planning the date. |
Anonymous
| Gift him the booty-hole. |
Anonymous
| No, you didn't need to say it when you sat down. I agree that was tacky of him to say. I always pick up the check on the third date but I don't say it off the bat! |