The post you are responding to says that bench pressing a similar amount to your squat is not practical for an average woman, NOT that bench pressing your body weight was not a practical goal. Your response confirms that--a body weight bench is intermediate-advanced, while a body weight squat is a novice level. Maybe you should work on your reading comprehension between sets. |
Unless your goal is specifically "do pull-ups", there is no strength or health or physique goal that you can get to with pull-ups that you can't get some other way. I love pull-ups, although my joints don't like them so much as I get older. But the way you get stronger and build muscle is with a training program that's consistent, in a good rep range, where you increase the amount you're lifting when you're able, and where the movements you're doing collectively work out your whole body. There are so many different ways to get there depending on someone's preferences, physical issues, and what they have available to them. I see a lot of men benching at the gym and their lifts are not particularly good because they don't have programs and they're not consistent. Those are the parts that are key, not the specific movement you choose. |
exactly. and I will also add - many women’s goals are not to build massive strength and muscle asap. We’re happy to take it more slowly and have fun. I really recommend starting with body weight exercises that help build form and confidence. They also help with proprioception and all sorts of other good stuff. It’s fine if anyone wants to focus on pullups or bench pressing, but there’s also something very gratifying about functional exercises like reverse lunges and kettlebell swings! |
Ignore all the conversation about benchpressing and backsquating, etc. Follow this advice above. You can start with simple motions like the DB chest press, a goblet squat, and a DB row. And if you're feeling motivated, try DB deadlifts as well. You don't even need to use a bar, or go anywhere near the squat rack area to do these exercises Those will hit just about all the muscles, including the ones you don't 'feel' like you're working. For example, you'll still be hitting your arms (biceps and triceps) when you're doing your presses and rows. But follow the above advice about progressive overload. Spend 2-3 months getting stronger. And if you've never done it before, the strength gains will come FAST! Then, see if you want to expand to the barbell or other variations of those motions. |
So this is sort of a pet peeve of mine, but how is a kettlebell swing a functional exercise? When, outside of swinging the kettlebell, do you ever do that motion in real life? Don't get me wrong, its a great accessory exercise and works the butt, hammies and forearms great! But its not functional. Functional exercises are the ones that directly translate to the motions you use in day to day to life. Box step-ups. Functional. Same as climbing stairs. Deadlifts. Functional. Same as picking up a heavy box off the floor. Overhead press. Functional. Same as putting something away on the top shelf of the cabinet. But when do you ever do the reverse lunge motion in real life? Or the swing motion, outside of the gym? Again I program and do these exercise multiple times a week. But they are not functional; they are accessory. |
"functional" to me just means that you're using a range of motion and combination of muscles that varies and mimicks every day movements, not locked into a pattern that you rarely do (when do you ever lie on your back and lift things IRL?) or isolating a single muscle/movement. |
PP back. Just for fun, here's a list of some of the exercises I've been doing over the past year: Knee pushup Negative pushup Pushup hold (like yoga but longer hold) Table pullups (these actually killed my shoulder but ok if you don't have shoulder issues) Reverse lunge Bulgarian split squat Bodyweight squat Bottom-focused squat (Start all the way squatting then raise up to about 1/3 of the way). Weighted goblet squat Kettlebell swing Kettlebell single leg deadlift Kettlebell Halos Band pull aparts Bent over row Dead Bug and Bird Dogs (great for back and core) |
Right, bench press isn't really a functional exercise. And in the same vein, neither really is squatting. Honestly, the clean and jerk is more functional than both of them. |
Hey, now. Squatting down, having a kid climb on my back, and standing up with them is a thing I do IRL! The clean part of the C&J I would say is a movement I use, but not so much the jerk part of it. |
I'm 56 and I've been doing "the big three" (squat, bench, deadlift) for five years along with assistance exercises like dips and pull-ups. Not bored or injured yet. Core is very strong. Each of the "big three" has a lot of variations that you can do to change things up if you are "bored" or have hit a plateau. For example: Bench: close grip, incline, decline, floor press, add bands or chains, paused, board press Squat: paused, tempo, front squat, bands or chains, zercher, Bulgarian split, safety squat bar, buffalo bar Deadlift: hex bar, sumo, paused, tempo, deficit, Romanian, snatch grip |
Lol, squatting isn't functional? See this is where you really need a woman's perspective. I squatted CONSTANTLY when I had babies/toddlers. |
Okay, that might be only time. But when picking something up off the floor (besides a toddler) you're really supposed to hinge, not squat. |
End even then, cleaning the weight, instead of squatting it is still a better match to picking up your toddler than squatting. So even for that example, squatting isn't the best comparison |
omg so much squatting with kids! squat to get face to face with a toddler, squat to search under the stroller for a bottle, squat while getting down to sit on the floor to play. |
| Bench press is functional when you’re trapped under your husband’s sleeping, sexually spent body and you need to escape. |