How do you know a man is attracted to you or interested in you romantically?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Invitation for after hours coffee or a drink.

The female should do the inviting if this is at the workplace. A lot of men are timid due to sexual harrassment claims.

Firstly, don't sh!t where you eat so you shouldn't be dating at work anyway.
Secondly, any man who will not under any circumstances as you out because he's worried about harassment is a creeper with zero social skills who you do not want to date anyway.

I'm not sure this is a hard and fast rule. You just need to be really careful

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He awkwardly seems to ask if you’d like to get ice cream.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Invitation for after hours coffee or a drink.

The female should do the inviting if this is at the workplace. A lot of men are timid due to sexual harrassment claims.

Firstly, don't sh!t where you eat so you shouldn't be dating at work anyway.
Secondly, any man who will not under any circumstances as you out because he's worried about harassment is a creeper with zero social skills who you do not want to date anyway.

I'm not sure this is a hard and fast rule. You just need to be really careful

Agree. Just be careful. And don’t be coy. If he shows interest and you are interested, say so. Otherwise, he likely will move on as to keep up “interest” in you when you haven’t reciprocated could be harassing

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Invitation for after hours coffee or a drink.

The female should do the inviting if this is at the workplace. A lot of men are timid due to sexual harrassment claims.

I won't be inviting him anywhere. If and it's a big if he's interested and would like to get to know me he can figure his ish out and find a way to talk to me so that a progression to hang out for drinks would not be weird.

OK he should leave you alone. You can't just say -- in a normal conversation as I assume you have actually talked to this person at some point -- let's grab a coffee?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Before he says anything. More precisely how do you know a shy man is interested in you or attracted to you?

when he shows you his erect penis

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Anonymous wrote:I’d say lots of looking is good sign, but not enough to know for sure.

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Anonymous wrote:You just know. If OP is being honest with herself, she already knows- she’s looking for validation. And it feels good to let those feelings out somewhere.

Agree with these 2 posters. Op knows he's into her. She just wants a place to gush about it. I get it. Especially when it's a work place thing you can't really gush about it in real life.
The early stages are the best! The glances. The longing. The butterflies everytime you see them. ...also maddening when the other person doesn't make a move. I hope it works out for you. Even if it doesn't enjoy the fact that someone thinks you're a hottie!

oh, she wants to gush alright.