| yeah, can I say that our older kid topped out on the English/vocabulary type tests, but it hardly mattered in subject matter classes, e.g., science or math or anything. Just because this kid can read Tolkien in 5th grade hardly does anything besides tell us as parents that the kid has got to work up to a higher potential (himself!!). |
DP, but I wanted to discuss this further. For those who have stayed at their Title 1 through the upper grades, what advice would you give to those of us starting out in lower elementary? |
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If you are committed to staying, I would suggest not engaging in these types of conversations. You will constantly doubt yourself if you listen to naysayers or family trying to be helpful. You know your kids, their teacher, their classmates. Look at what you see everyday and tune out the rest.
Additionally, think about all the things the school provides that you appreciate. Most likely, unless you have a profoundly gifted child, your child will be advanced but still challenged appropriately. You can “supplement” academics at home, but there are so many things a school provides beyond academics. I have found our title 1 is full of those things, none of which my family could supplement at home. I can practice reading more challenging texts at home. |
Figure out a plan for middle school that you are truly.comfortable with, even if you don't share it with others. Remember that your friends at "better" schools may not know the full picture of their school yet. Many people are thrilled with their HRCS initially but less so as time goes on--I know I was. |
As a parent with a kid that has learning delays and has a lot of similarities to Autism (Testing yes she qualifies but they debate it all the time due to the mix of differences but it does get more funding for SPED) Our IB dcps did a okay job with SPED for pre-K but was understaffed. The principal and others have left since and I am just not sure what to think about going back. Some of the families where great many were just too busy to be all that involved. I guess it isn't that different at our Charter but they have a LOT more funding for SPED. So, there are many more services but we are learning that isn't showing a difference in the testing. Idk about graduation results as that isn't tracked as kids transition to different schools for middle or high school. Not sure what to do really. It is really difficult to compare schools if you child has learning differences and needs an IEP. Also added debate given our children are not white and won't be "fine anywhere". Which is why a lot of middle class and upper middle class black families move to Charters or different schools in DC or MD/VA. |
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My kid is starting third grade at a Title 1. We have been trying to lottery to a charter foryears but no luck. We loved the school but by second grade there are HUGE acheivement gaps. So far its worked because the classes are so small (around 16-20) and there are good supports for kids who need help.
I also talk with the teacher a lot about keeping my kid challenged. But the academics definitely are teaching down, not up. the attitude is "your kid will be fine anywhere" is tiresome. The fourth and fifth grades are ususally down to one class compared to 4 classes in first grade. Familiies leave also due to the middle school feed. MacFarland is a no go. My kid has had amazing teachers but don't kid yourself on diferentiation. Even the best teacher cant really reach the kid one grade above and the kid two grades behind. |
Same at our school. The UMC parents have tried to bring more activities but the PTA is controlled by three people who are adamant that NO activities can be added unless they are free to every single kid. Its so frustrating. |
Which school is this? We’re considering a few MacFarland feeders right now. |
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We have a kid entering 2nd at a Title 1, so not really upper elementary but just to share our experience:
We had a feeling early on that our kid was pretty bright, and as it has turned out she is way above grade level in everything - so much so that the school suggested a grade skip. I don't know, but I feel like that might have been less likely to happen in a school where she had more academic peers. That said, we've stayed put because ironically we felt like the smaller school has been more accommodating than a WOTP school in trying to challenge her...not to mention all of the benefits of non-academic learning in her life at this school. We're taking it year by year, but there is starting to be a bit more of a gap than I'd like. She lost a lot of friends to other schools at Kindergarten, and it sucked - but a lot of those people that left mentioned how overcrowded the school were that they switched to. However, most that left were high-achieving parents (not just white) that were spooked by the middle school situation. The folks that stayed are generally committed until middle generally and as one poster said, a more chill group of people. So I guess I would just say that if your kid is the type of kid that everyone is constantly talking about how smart they are and you have a sense that they are definitely way advanced, it might not be the best fit to stay, but there are also benefits for doing so. Good luck with your decision. |
| I tell every parent on school tours, ask to talk to parents of kids from 2nd (or preferably 3rd) grade and up. They know. |
| Would you send your kid to a suboptimal college? Anyone who can flees crappy schools. Do yourself and your kids a favor and leave now |
Having just finished a year with a 5th grade class that started all virtual, some went to a CAREs room, then hybrid, then in person with multiple teachers and cohort changes + at least one quarantine, reading scores were all over the place but ranged from 2st grade to 12th grade. I'm not sure how much being amongst their peers (either virtually or in person) really impacted those at the higher reading level. If there was ever a year to discredit a "norm" this one was it. The unfortunate part is the kids that started below grade level, generally stayed there - but almost everyone else progressed as expected despite the worst worst possible academic setting. |
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Generally speaking, I have found that "differentiation" for Reading is simply reading a higher level book during independent reading time and for Math is extra time on one of the Math application games (Computer time). At the elementary level, this feels fine to me. Although, a lot of it is dependent on your children wanting to do the assignment in the moment. Conceptually it sounds good, but practically speaking, my kid isn't always going to want to do the "hard" work when something easier or more fun is still an option.
Someone once framed it for me in this way- there are some people who would prefer that students continue learning vertically, (move on to the next metric once they have mastered one). Other people would prefer students continue learning horizontally, (stay at the same level but practice more, or do more advanced versions of the current metric). If you prefer vertical learning- that is not what you will see. But, if you are comfortable with horizontal learning, then you should be satisfied. These schools are not going to teach your kids the next level (unless they completely skip a grade for one or more classes). But they will provide them with other challenging things at the current level- either through compute programs, additional practice sheets/games/puzzles, or reading materials. |
I'd add: Talk to your children and try to get them to talk about what the classroom is like on a day-to-day basis. Our kids aren't that communicative, and then one day they mentioned that it was hard to work when there were so many disruptions, including kids throwing chairs. (This was at a non-Title I school; and I'm sure there are Title I schools with better functioning classrooms.) |
PP, what did you do outside of school for your kid? Or did you end up moving schools? Honestly asking. |