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Theoretically, a kid can join a high tier team at any time. Realistically, the problem is that those teams already have strong players. So your kid has to be significantly better to replace a player that has similar skills that the club/coach already knows. That is why playing for a lower team at a club with a top team does give you an advantage because they get to know him over time and are able to watch his development. High performing lower team players are often asked to practice with the top team or join them for a game or two if they have injuries. In addition, although your kid may grow into a better player against lower competition, existing players have been tested and have played against that stronger competition. Therefore, over time of playing top teams, the top players get even better. The easiest way to get into the system is to join one of these teams at U11 or U12 or join the next lower team at that age at that club. If you don't get on the top team at that time, you might get lucky at the later ages when players start playing only one position and that exact position opens up because an existing player left the team or is long term injured. |
Indeed they don't - and I agree that that certainly happens. But good coaches do - and they will still pick the smaller players at age 11 and win with them at that time as well as later when they grow. |
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Although our experience was with girls, we saw similar things about protecting self confidence being more important than the specific timing. Our 2nd DD hit her puberty awkward years at 11/12, and even though others who were similarly talented were moving to higher level clubs at that time, we knew her journey through puberty meant that she wouldn’t show well that year and we didn’t want to crush her belief in herself and her love of the game. So she played for the local club another year or two and moved to a higher level team later than many other of the talented girls, after she’d grown into her limbs and gotten less awkward and regained her coordination after puberty. She’s playing D1 now. |
Looking at rosters at an individual club may give you a false view of what is happening - because the players in those clubs are not randomly selected and a middle of the road club likely had very few really good kids in the first place. Such a club typically draws a lot of kids who are fairly close on the ability spectrum - and thus they can swap places on that spectrum over the years without really going from bottom to top (or vice versa) when considering the general population. Thus a kid who moves a small way in ability when measured against the general population may move from second to first team and appear to have progressed significantly when in fact the real movement has been quite small. For one of those kids to have truly become one of the "best" kids they need to have acquired the ability to play at DCU - or at least be a strong starter on the next tier of teams below this. That would be a significant development - and it is rare. |
How much to secure a spot? Tryouts are this Thursday. Might as well slip the technical director a few grand under the table. |
PP. Yes I agree with this. A kid who puts in significantly more work can indeed move himself on the spectrum. My point is that such changes do not "just happen" as kids grow. I still think such moves are, to some extent, limited by innate ability and athleticism - but kids can certainly go a long way by practising hard.
Sounds like this kid is a good example of practising hard although "being IDed by VDA" is quite a bit different to "starting for VDA" and VDA, while clearly a good club, is not amongst the top clubs in the region. |
Yea, I agree with that. I think it is naive that parents think practicing 2-3 times a week is going to be enough to get their child on an elite level club. This kid did that for 1 year and is still fighting to get on a roster. Hope he makes it |
“Did that” as in what was previously mentioned. He trained 12-15 hours a week for one year. |
Fear. I hear a lot of fear and wishes of what current parents of these teams believe .
A kid can be dropped or added at any age. Rosters change frequently. |
Indeed. And even this may not be enough to catch up - some of the kids on the top teams train more than this (although to be fair not all do) and they are almost certainly playing more as most of them play futsal/pickup/other leagues as well as their club. |
Yes this is tough to overcome. It's certainly not impossible - but a kid who wants to break into one of these teams later has to be motivated enough to work a lot harder than everyone around him in order to not only catch up with, but overtake, kids who have a more favorable environment. It's unlikely to happen without a lot of effort. |
LOL Dude, many of these kids are not catching up. They are coming from other places with better development and are able to start. Kids come from all over the DMV and other States (new to the area). |
This is definitely true. I have observed everything from 50% of the kids getting replaced mid-season at one DA club to zero roster additions at the same club in a different age group. In general something like 3-5 kids getting added each year is probably "normal" for a team. |