I think this is important. Precision of language is critical and cancelling the entire period without recognizing what else was going on is dangerous. |
The 75% that did not own slaves also didn't live in plantations and live lavishly. So, bad example. |
Point taken, and I don't disagree. |
People aren’t having Transcendentalisl themed parties and calling them “antebellum” parties. Or holding them at plantations. |
We can be deliberately literal and pretend that when people refer to "Antebellum" they mean the years before 1861, and that includes white sharecroppers and abolitionist philosophers and poets. But it doesn't, and if you just google "antebellum party" you can see what people really mean. |
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An antebellum party is racist because it is a celebration/replication of the lifestyle of the uber wealthy, slave owning, white people living on plantations in the pre Civil War south. These people owned and amassed their wealth, and were afforded this opulent lifestyle and their parties because they were slaveowners and amassed ridiculous wealth by owning other human beings.
Why would anyone have a party to celebrate this dark chapter in american history? Not a great choice for a theme for a party. Do you understand? |
An antebellum party is about the clothes. I've never been to one, but I can tell you that is what I see. It also includes mint juleps. Lots of them. |
It’s not. A bunch of girls in lacy dresses and parasols? Not remotely racist. At all. |
That they’re still merrily upholding and refusing to learn about. |
It is very specifically about the clothes that the richest and most elite class of southerners wore. So everyone goes to the party dressed like elite, wealthy southern plantation owners, aka people who are wealthy from human slavery. |
The opulent lifestyle of the wealthy today is still based on exploiting other humans. So, I hope you enthusiastically refuse to attend corporate functions. |
Yeah so? Ever heard of the Society for Creative Anacronism. where people dress up in the clothes of Medieval elites who were wealthy due to human serfdom, the second worst thing in the world, next to slavery? What about toga parties? That's where you dress up in the clothes of an ancient Roman elite that got wealthy based on slavery and world domination. Do we have to stop all that too? |
I think we need to ban black shirts because that's what Steve Jobs wore while yelling at his employees to make them exploit more Chinese factory workers. /s |
Oh dear Lord you did not just compare Old South parties to LARPing.
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My college roommate was very active in the Society for Creative Anacronism. Her character was "Dorcas," a serf. They don't all play elites, and they know an amazing about about life in the middle ages. |