| We’re down south so he is playing golf with me.....and not with his buddies....and then I plan to cook the same dinner I cooked for him many years ago the night he proposed and hopefully the night progresses the same way it did almost 30 years ago though I will skip calling my mother. |
No, I’m wayyyyyy past the age where gestures on Valentine’s Day matter in my romantic relationship: I feel deeply loved and valued every day. An evening with my beau and his beloved family (whose company I also enjoy) is fine with me. If it makes you feel better about my situation, we had amazing sex early this morning and will do so again tonight. |
Yet you are on dcum. Real hot relationship with AP if you are blogging on dcum. Lol |
| At some point I will let my husband have his way with me and I with him so all will be good in my universe! |
aunt flow is visiting in a big way (
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| DS (13) and I just made a chocolate raspberry tart together that we'll have tonight for dessert. I'm cooking each of us a filet, some roasted potatoes and some wilted spinach. Not much else. Got kiddo some chocolates, but DH and I agreed not to do anything for each other. He just cleaned the kitchen, folded the laundry, and is washing out baseboards, which is my favorite gift! |
| I am giving my girlfriend a class in BDSM this evening, where I am the professor and she is the student. I have been typing up class notes all weekend. |
| Family gifts. Gift for husband. |
Hmm having to downplay and be condescending to others to feel better about your relationship is not a convincing strategy. In fact, it sounds like your trying to convince yourself how happy you are with this arrangement. I do hope you enjoyed your family gathering. |
| Today is Dh's 40th bday we had brunch with the inlaws. They are taking the kids until Tuesday. I am making him cheesecake, and bacon-wrapped pork chops his favorite, and then lots of uninterrupted sex! |
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| We did brunch at a quiet local spot, and will eat tacos for dinner. Sadly, no sex because I had a D&C for a missed miscarriage yesterday so we have to wait till I’m cleared. |
No i think the op is right. You can have private time later. Family is important. |
I would be fine with this, too. We can have a nice morning or day together, it does not need to be 24/7. OP is clearly older, already had a family, why does it matter who they gave dinner with? We are having dinner with our kids, one of whom is a young adult with a SO who will be joining us. They celebrated last night and are excited to get two great dinners in a row! |
PP, I think this is kind of sweet. |