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My kid was a goofball in high school. I like the description of a 'hare' above. That was my kid. Smart. But happy to take a nap along the way and may or may not finish the race.
Something clicked when she went to college (UMD). Maybe the fear that 'college is harder' so she took it seriously. Maybe that we weren't looking over her shoulder (that always made things worse). But it seems like she takes school very seriously now--doesn't miss classes and such. (Though obviously impossible for me to tell.) And I can confirm that grades are good. I think the diversity of answers you're seeing above may have to do with majors. Engineering and CS are low-grading disciplines-- they're happy to give Cs and below so kids can potentially really struggle. Some other fields will be much easier than HS since kids can more or less avoid taking the classes that aren't in their preferred fields. |
| Although I graduated from UMCP 20 years ago, I still remember accidentally missing a final exam in my Junior year. Just got the times mixed up. The professor let me take it later. What happened to people? |
Can, but will? Why throw away a gift of 4 years of public university education? |
Then as now, some people are petty and vicious to cover up their insecurities. |
DD graduated mcps 5 years ago with no midterms or finals. I think they disappeared before DS 18 graduated. It's been a long time. My kids managed fine in college. |
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I’m think I’m the OP of this zombie thread. My DD struggled in STEM.
All 100/200 Chem classes are weeders as are 100/200 Math classes. If your child attended a strong HS, it’s no guarantee of success in those classes. |
Did she switch to another major? |
Does this mean that MCPS doesn’t give semester and final exams now? Wow. |
I'm curious too OP |
Typically for non-academic reasons. Finances Health issues (including mental health) Family issues Bad for socially |
Maybe UMD is different but my kids found their profs usually has some amount of flexibility. Like a late paper lost 5% an hour or 10%a day. Lowest grade could be dropped. Curves etc. |
I graduated from college nearly 30 years and late assignments got a % drop, not a zero. |
Four years aren’t needed thanks to MC2. Looking at going directly to grad school. An advanced degree is a must in the field. Career can’t start until after grad school. There’s no economic incentive to taking unneeded undergrad courses and a fair amount of economic incentive to starting a career 1-1.5 years earlier. |
I think they are back as part of the new grading policy. |
Yes she switched to easier STEM. Ended up with two Ws on transcript to avoid failure. Retook both classes and earned a minor in a different non-STEM area. That’s what she’s pursuing in grad school. |