Is this too large of an age gap? She's 65 he is 39

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Anonymous wrote:So my relative and her boyfriend have been together almost a decade. She lives off her investment properties and he only works sporadically. No steady job. He says she is very insecure about him wandering off too long. She is insecure but frankly I think she's out of his league. She looks great for her age and passes for 40. Hes been there when she got ill and broke her hip and took care of her during all the recovery. Nobody in the family likes him though and believes he is a golddigger but his sticking by her side makes me think otherwise. I know as a person grows older they get lonely if they have no kids or close family. Is there a way this could be real? If not how to make her see the light?

LOL. You are saying a 65 year old woman is passing for 40??? Okay, I want to see photos.

I can't even think of any celebrity or model that could pull this off.

Lionel Ritchie and Paris Hilton.

Wait..... Nevermind.

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Lisa Vanderpump's stepson has been with a much older woman happily for decades now.

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When Iwas 50 I dated a 27 yo. We met in real life su we didn’t know ages until the sparks had flown. If they have been together for a decade I say leave them alone unless you have some indication of financial buse or something. We broke up because he wanted his own kids, and that wouldn’t work for me without a lot of help (no eggs left). But it was a very real relationship. I still miss him. He treated me way better than guys my age!

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Anonymous wrote:Well, going the other way, Celine Dion and her late husband had a bigger age gap and from the outside, they looked like they were really happy.

I mean, maybe? It's pretty gross he is all she ever knew and he started grooming her for a relationship with him when she was 12, the 14th kid in a poor family, and he was a 38 year old twice-divorced father exec.

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Honestly, I think it's OK for a right-now thing if they are both having fun, but I don't think this man is going to be comfortable or happy with her as he moves through middle age himself. His wife will become elderly and slow as he remains young and energetic enough to want to enjoy life in ways she wont' be able to keep up with as she starts to slow down. I don't think it is fair for ANYBODY to expect a 26 year younger partner to invest in the long haul.

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Anonymous wrote:So my relative and her boyfriend have been together almost a decade. She lives off her investment properties and he only works sporadically. No steady job. He says she is very insecure about him wandering off too long. She is insecure but frankly I think she's out of his league. She looks great for her age and passes for 40. Hes been there when she got ill and broke her hip and took care of her during all the recovery. Nobody in the family likes him though and believes he is a golddigger but his sticking by her side makes me think otherwise. I know as a person grows older they get lonely if they have no kids or close family. Is there a way this could be real? If not how to make her see the light?

You lost all credibility when you said she passes for 40.

Are they getting married? What's the concern if he's a golddigger as long as they don't get married? They both get something out of the relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:So my relative and her boyfriend have been together almost a decade. She lives off her investment properties and he only works sporadically. No steady job. He says she is very insecure about him wandering off too long. She is insecure but frankly I think she's out of his league. She looks great for her age and passes for 40. Hes been there when she got ill and broke her hip and took care of her during all the recovery. Nobody in the family likes him though and believes he is a golddigger but his sticking by her side makes me think otherwise. I know as a person grows older they get lonely if they have no kids or close family. Is there a way this could be real? If not how to make her see the light?

LOL. You are saying a 65 year old woman is passing for 40??? Okay, I want to see photos.

You're not because this is an anonymous forum. Here are celebrity women in their 60s though

They're attractive but do not look 40.

Agree. Plus I'd like to see these celebrities without make up, when they wake up. 65 passing for 40 is not credible. OP is fooling herself.