I can truly appreciate wanting to take school into consideration when making a decision about where to live, but "Potomac" and "Bethesda" are huge areas, and that's not even including "North Potomac" and "North Bethesda." Maybe Covid will change things permanently, but I doubt it, and once traffic gets back to normal (actually, it could be worse than normal for a while if people shun public transportation for cars until a vaccine really takes), the traffic in the DC area is some of the worst in the country. There are plenty of great pre-schools in both areas, perhaps more in the Bethesda/NW DC area just because of density, so I'd first focus on an area that makes sense for the other aspects of your life, and then just make sure that there are some good pre-k options nearby. You'll get plenty of recommendations on this forum. |
Country Day in McLean is amazing and has great Covid protections. Also all outdoors for Covid. |
Any reason you wouldn't consider Virginia? There are some good pre-Ks in McLean (not to mention good schools beyond that and other reasons to live in VA). |
Personally, I wouldn't take Pre-K into consideration when deciding where to live. I appreciate living close to a school and I think it can be a huge benefit (although realize that many of your children's classmates will live all over the place), but there are so many good Pre-Ks in the DC area that picking a place to live based just on that would be incredibly foolish. I would place a priority on where jobs will be, since DC commutes can be sole-crushing. |
| You mean soul-crushing, right? |
I agree with this poster. There are a lot of great preschools in the area, and it's such a short period of time that I don't think it makes sense to choose your location for a preschool. At the same time, work commutes can be BRUTAL. Our preschool commute was also on the way to work, which I appreciated. It made morning drop off a little more efficient, and it meant that the commute wasn't quite as long when I needed to go from work to school (e.g., for class parties or things like that). Also make sure to look at the hours the preschool offers, if you'll need full day care for your child. Most have some sort of after care, but some only go until 5 pm or so, which can be tough if both parents are working standard 9-5 jobs (this was the case with NCRC when we were there a few years ago). One other consideration is whether you may want to do private school after preschool. If you do, it makes sense to look at those schools for preschool, or preschools where a large amount of the kids usually go to private school after preschool. For the former, a lot of kids that go to the private school for preschool are likely to stay on for K and beyond, so you're child will be a part of that community if you want to stay. On the other hand, private schools that have an elementary component may not be as helpful if you want to apply elsewhere after preschool. For preschools where a lot of kids go to private school, those schools may be more helpful when you're applying for private elementary. Those schools tend to be in NW DC (NCRC is one), since NW DC parents are more likely to go the private route than parents in other areas. |
| Washington International School -- Spanish or French immersion. Tremendous school! |
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My recommendation for the sanest approach:
1. Determine where your physical offices for work will be, since that will ultimately determine your commute. 2. Determine where you want to live. In households with two professionals, in the DC area it's fairly common for the two jobs to be nowhere near one another, necessitating some kind of compromise on commute. 3. Determine where you're going to send your child to school. To maximize sanity, the school should be along the home-to-work route for the parent who will be doing dropoff/pickup. Note that many commute times are asymmetric. The morning commute is often much faster than the evening commute. That should definitely be kept in mind as you look at aftercare options and whether or not the aftercare hours will extend long enough for a parent to get there after their workday, given the likelihood of terrible traffic. (Also think about how much spare room you have before the end of hours, for those days when the traffic is unusually bad, which will probably happen at least once a month.) |
| Another big fan of NCRC and Beauvoir here. We experienced both. NCRC is just amazing for the little ones. Teachers are wonderful, place is beautiful and administration is well organized and caring. I don’t know why you would want to live in Bethesda or Potomac if you are planning to send your child to private school. I think those areas have the best public schools in the DMV, but they are far from downtown DC. There are so many nice neighborhoods to choose from inDC if you don’t plan on private school... unless you will be working for NIH... in that casa I understand wanting to be in Bethesda/Potomac |
That’s changing in January, precisely for equity reasons. And the reasons they are remote right now are completely fair. We recognize we are in the middle of a pandemic. There are circumstances admin cannot control, and they are doing their best. Ultimately, we love the school and community, and we are giving grace to anyone making hard decisions right now. |
Manor Montessori |
| Note that many schools mentioned here do not take in 3 years old kids such as Norwood. |
| 100% agree to pick house first based on commute and then find a preschool. We are blessed with many great preschools here, but commutes can be terrible. Fix the hardest problem first. |
| Norwood's pre-k starts at 4 years old, but it was definitely a magical year for my son--such a warm, loving place. Play-based with a ton of outside time. He made so much progress both socially/emotionally and all the basic academics. Hope your move goes smoothly and good luck! |
| You will find many other people who have previously lived in Europe at Oneness Family School in Bethesda. Montessori and a very international warm community. We loved our time there for pre-k through 1st. |