Feel “nothing” when getting divorced

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I was off the pill for two days because I had a 104 degree temperature.

But you chose not to take the readily available morning after pill.

If I had not been raised religiously, I would have had an abortion.

You chose not to have an abortion because reasons.

Stop blaming your husband and your religious upbringing for your bad choices.

It was not readily available then. You had to have a prescription. I was extremely sick for two weeks—I was barely getting out of bed and I was taking a lot of medication. I was not thinking at all about pregnancy being possible. I was too ill to even think like that and it was not as simple as going to CVS. When a spouse says no, the other should stop. Period.

Stop derailing the thread. I was defending myself from an early poster’s assumption about things. I am not soliciting your opinion. My question was about “feeling nothing” with a divorce. That has been answered and I do not need any more nasty comments. You have no idea what else has happened so just stop.

You are still blaming others and making excuses for your own bad choices. That is the real issue in your life, though you're obviously refusing to admit it, not that you "feel nothing" about your divorce. (Which frankly isn't even credible if he is as evil as you say.)

[Anonymous]

My wife is so abusive (verbally, mentally, physically I feel on edge all the time and loud noises cause me to Flinch cause I'm not sure if something is being thrown at me ) to me that I've reached the point where I would be relieved and not sad at all if she left. Over the past several months she has been threatening divorce and even walk out for a few days. When that happened I felt a little panic but she came back and things have been so much worse that I really want her to leave. If she were to divorce me I don't think I would feel anything with regard to her. I might have nervousness about the settlement but not about her leaving.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I was mentally divorced 9 years ago...at the very beginning. I think that is why.

Same here, once you write someone off you are done with the stages of grief and ready to move on w life!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I was mentally divorced 9 years ago...at the very beginning. I think that is why.

Same here, once you write someone off you are done with the stages of grief and ready to move on w life!

Yes, that makes sense to me.