Mother in Law says “NOKD”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow she’s a blatant bigot.

It isn’t about being bigoted, it is about avoiding vulgarity. Anyone can have class, though few do.

Anyone who says "Not Our Kind, Dear" or any phrase/sentiment like it has no class whatsoever.

If you have good taste, manners, and class, you don't need to draw attention to yourself or make much of yourself; people will notice your grace and class without you saying a word.

[Anonymous]

You're the same troll who posted that post about the MIL and the Lily Pulitzer bathing suit, aren't you?

[Anonymous]

Maybe she meant NKOTB and was just confused that you were talking about the 90’s boy band.

[Anonymous]

I'd follow it up with "oh? Why is that?" and listen intently to her explanation. Than, parrot it back to her in a way that makes it clear you see the underlying racism/classism/bullshitism. Then just watch her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s not about hate. It does sound cringe-worthy when you say it out loud, but it’s a thing. Look at Harry and Meghan. My own brother is on his second NOKD, with disastrous outcomes (obviously we are not bigoted enough not to mary NOKD)...

Oh look. Another bigot. How boring.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow she’s a blatant bigot.

It isn’t about being bigoted, it is about avoiding vulgarity. Anyone can have class, though few do.

+ 1

Avoiding ‘vulgarity’ does not require calling it out, much less having an acronym for it. Being gracious about the world around is having class.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow she’s a blatant bigot.

It isn’t about being bigoted, it is about avoiding vulgarity. Anyone can have class, though few do.

Anyone who says "Not Our Kind, Dear" or any phrase/sentiment like it has no class whatsoever.

If you have good taste, manners, and class, you don't need to draw attention to yourself or make much of yourself; people will notice your grace and class without you saying a word.

+1
And don't kid yourself there is a Strong cultural undercurrent to this shit. A hierarchy of those who deserve respect and how much. Gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're the same troll who posted that post about the MIL and the Lily Pulitzer bathing suit, aren't you?

Oh snap. Good call, PP

[Anonymous]

I know a 30 something woman who says it all the time. It’s truly pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're the same troll who posted that post about the MIL and the Lily Pulitzer bathing suit, aren't you?

Who would disparage Lilly Pulitzer?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mother in law says “NOKD,” meaning “Not our kind, dear.” Men with Jewelry are NOKD. Las Vegas? NOKD. R
Hip hop music? Definitely NOKD. Is that still an expression?

Little does she realize it's a compliment not to be her kind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Suddenly it's 1982 again.

She must be reading the preppy handbook in her spare time!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow she’s a blatant bigot.

Huh?