| OP asked a simple question. What is the need for this inquisition? |
Because she wants to do it at a wedding. Seeking attention on herself at someone else’s day. |
Wow! People spend that kind of money on clothes?! I hope you donate generously to charity. I saw a pair of pants for $395.
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| This is hilarious and also somewhat sad. I am the OP and you guys have made a million assumptions about me, the bride, the wedding, whether or not I’m in the party, and whether or not it is appropriate or not for me to match my daughter and if that is upstaging the bride or not when you literally know nothing. Zero. About the situation. Or our family. Or me. Or the bride. Thanks to all who were helpful and provided suggestions, the rest of you can go stew in your own bitter juices of judgement and misery. |
LOL kbye |
I love the way people who do not know basic etiquette make up all kinds of manners rules about weddings that they have pulled out of the air. Clearly a Bridezilla thing. |
You do know that you went from "going to a wedding" to having your three year old be a flower girl that you "have to" walk down the aisle. I've been to weddings where this might have been necessary. If you were in the wedding party, this would be easier. But, if you are not, do you really think the bride wants an "adult flower girl?" That's kind of what it sounds like if you wear the same outfit as the flower girl. But, you do you. |
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Based on the way some of the posters here are reacting, it's pretty clear what kinds of brides you were for your own weddings.
OP, no specific store recs, but you do you. No one here knows you, your child, or your family dynamic. I hope you find what you are looking for and that you have a wonderful time at the wedding. Seriously people. |
Just maybe people are well meaning and giving her fodder for thought. |
Wrong. I was the first one to call OP attention seeking. I didn’t even have a bridal party, didn’t have/want a shower, and my bachelorette was a backyard BBQ. Still too bridezilla for you? |
| ^^meant to reply to the poster above this one! |
+1 to all of this. OP, if you ever post again, don't mention "wedding" because it seems to bring out all the cray cray bridezillas. |
Not a bridezilla here--was married by a Justice of the Peace with just three people in attendance. But, I've been to lots of weddings and if I saw a flower girl and her mother walking down the aisle in matching dresses, I'd find it a little peculiar--if the mom were a bridesmaid, it would be okay, I guess. But, I don't like little girls dressed as adults--or adults dressed as little girls. Tacky. |
| Went to a wedding once where the flower girl was dressed as a miniature of the bride. Dress, tiara, and veil. Some people thought it was cute. I wouldn't choose it. |