at the brink of re-contacting AP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Should I contact him again?

Not one, not two, but THREE gif says you care a lot and you’re invested in this thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Should I contact him again?

Not one, not two, but THREE gif says you care a lot and you’re invested in this thread.

If you say so...
I don’t give a shit what you think.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she gave a shit before. Sometimes it’s hard to face reality. He’d contact you if he was in love with you. He’s not. Your his booty call. Nothing more. Time for you to move on.

Men are really good at playing your heart. His ego demands your attention. It’s likely all about him.

You’re also likely 2nd or 3rd tier. Just move on honey.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He just wants sex honey. Nothing more.[/quote

If he hasn't even reached back out to OP, then he doesn't even want sex.

OP - has he even tried a minimal form of contact? If not, well, re-consider re-contacting.

[Anonymous]

Why must you hoo-er?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Should I contact him again?

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Not one, not two, but THREE gifs says you care a lot and you’re invested in this thread.

If you say so...
I don’t give a shit what you think.

And yet, here you are. Me thinks the lady does protest too much.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I broke up with my AP of 1 year, about 2 months ago. I am married, he is divorced. I used to meet him on work trips, every other week or less often. The reasons to break up were: Guilt and thinking I was more emotionally invested in it than him (at some point, I suggested getting a divorce and partnering with him, but he didn't want to relocate to where I am). I miss talking to him, he was so much fun, I really enjoyed all my time with him a lot. I felt I was in love with him for most of the time. Now, I am seriously in need of this human interaction. DH never found out about this. AP behaved professionally at every stage, he said he misses me in one of our post-breakup talks. Should I contact him again?

You were a good roll in the hay for him and once you suggested getting a divorce he realized that you saw him as a long term partner and he wanted none of it. He’s probably moved on to some other lonely married woman and has no need for a needy woman. Either re-kindle something with your husband or find someone else to fill your need for human interaction. There are plenty of guys out there who would be happy to do that.

[Anonymous]

Go for it. A woman. Needs to get laid.

[Anonymous]

If he’s divorced, he’s probably enjoying no-strings attached sex and unlikely to consider marriage with a woman who cheats on her husband. Just being real with you. Be thankful that you didn’t get caught. Or maybe that’s what you really want.

[Anonymous]

Stop cheating.

Tell APs wife anonymously. And I assume you've gotten tested??

[Anonymous]

Likely he did not feel as strongly about you as you have felt about him.

So if you run back into his arms - do not expect everything to be a rose garden.

Whatever issue in your marriage that is not right at this time.....
You would be much better off addressing it first w/your husband.

Whether you two could benefit from marriage counseling, separation, etc., you need to focus first & foremost on your marriage.

Then once you have decided what to do there, you will have a clearer mind to make other life choices.

You can do this.
It won’t be fun, but is the most responsible way to handle this.

[Anonymous]

Reconnect with your husband or divorce. Those are your options.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Reconnect with your husband or divorce. Those are your options.

Nope, to be certain, those are only two of her many options.

[Anonymous]

Girl, he doesn’t want you. You were an easy lay for him. One of probably many since you didn’t live in the same city. Don’t deluded yourself that it was more than that - he was clear with you.

Leave your husband and find someone new. Trying to reconnect isn’t going to work for you or you would have done it when you broke things off with your AP.