Who lives, who dies, who tells your story

[Anonymous]

I read the whole thing and still can't quite understand what it's about and not even a clue how the title relates to the tome.

OP, I suspect you were drunk when you wrote this, weren't you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And then there was a bad night while we were planning the non-profit. Her husband texted her while we were out planning the org. And she cried. And she also told me I had made a me-too moment for her that she didn't mind because now we could be equal partners. And that she was committed to going forward, and we would be fine as partners as long as she stayed married. And that she regretted life choices in a way that implied her DH And the ride home is burned in my mind - it was clear her husband knew I had been inappropriate, she told him we were doing this anyway, he was angry, and she was sad. She has 2 DC. I felt tremendous regret over the me too moment, the consequences she was facing for starting the org, and my bad choices. And still had inappropriate feelings toward her that I knew I had to avoid ever pushing because her stuff was hard enough as was mine.

A “me too” moment means she felt you were inappropriate with her. She doesn’t want you hitting on her, and will only do this project with you if you stop behaving inappropriately.

Get some individual therapy. For real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Saw how long it was and didn’t even start to read. What would the dust cover synopsis say?

Zzz

[Anonymous]

I read the whole thing. I was honestly fascinated to read such an introspective post. How long did it take to write that?

OP, you sound extremely hard on yourself. If I’m reading correctly, you and your wife have had a lot of ups and downs. Your wife is erratic/abusive at times. You’ve thought about cheating but haven’t acted on it per se.

There seems to be a lot of drama inside your head but ask yourself, all of these things you’re telling yourself— are they really true? I think you need to give yourself a break on this stuff. Your marriage sounds tough. Are you in individual counseling? Sounds like you need someone to talk to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So what I’m taking from all this is you want to leave your wife and be with your “friend” (assuming she leaves her husband), but you also want to be the victim rather than the bad guy when you break up two marriages and disrupt three kids’ lives,

My XH is still waiting a over decade later for his “one who got away” to leave her DH. Meanwhile, I’m happily remarried.

[Anonymous]

Holy hell balls, OP.

WTF was that post? Mind numbing is what it was.

Kudos to anyone who actually managed to get through your gas bag post and respond coherently.

How old are you????