35yo guy husband works with brought 24yo woman to a wedding. Everyone gave him a hard time, why?

Anonymous
It’s biology. Women on the other end of peak fertility despise more youthful/fertile reproductive competition. The creep predator insults are just fecklessly trying to bully and intimidate high status men into dating less fertile older women. Since the dawn of time high status men have courted younger women for beauty, and more, healthier kids.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s biology. Women on the other end of peak fertility despise more youthful/fertile reproductive competition. The creep predator insults are just fecklessly trying to bully and intimidate high status men into dating less fertile older women. Since the dawn of time high status men have courted younger women for beauty, and more, healthier kids.


Again, not all women - regardless of where they fall on the fertility spectrum - are threatened by young, beautiful women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Because women hate pretty women. Always have, always will

That's not really relevant as the OP never mentioned the woman was pretty.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s biology. Women on the other end of peak fertility despise more youthful/fertile reproductive competition. The creep predator insults are just fecklessly trying to bully and intimidate high status men into dating less fertile older women. Since the dawn of time high status men have courted younger women for beauty, and more, healthier kids.


You have no idea how old the colleagues are.
Anonymous
A+ troll post, OP! I give you a gold star
Anonymous
Ugh. Gross.

I met my DH when I was 23 and he was 31. Big deal. Not much different than their age range.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Good for him. Everyone else is jealous or insecure with their own lives. (I’m a woman if that matters.)


+1.

Jealousy
Anonymous
What was her personality like? Maybe it had more to do with what she was presenting than her age or appearance.

Though I will add I am on the team that’s a big age gap for her phase of life. At 24 I thought a 35-year-old was pretty ancient.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ugh. Gross.

I met my DH when I was 23 and he was 31. Big deal. Not much different than their age range.


+2

Met my DH when I was 20 and he was 28. Married now. What’s the big deal?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s biology. Women on the other end of peak fertility despise more youthful/fertile reproductive competition. The creep predator insults are just fecklessly trying to bully and intimidate high status men into dating less fertile older women. Since the dawn of time high status men have courted younger women for beauty, and more, healthier kids.


“High status”
Anonymous
I bet it's the women were all jealous because she is still young and firm and hot. The men were all jealous because she is young and firm and hot.

And he probably had the best sex of the night.
Anonymous
Does she have vocal fry? If so, this chick may be Peak Millennial.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s biology. Women on the other end of peak fertility despise more youthful/fertile reproductive competition. The creep predator insults are just fecklessly trying to bully and intimidate high status men into dating less fertile older women. Since the dawn of time high status men have courted younger women for beauty, and more, healthier kids.




You could also say it's just an extension of the patriarchy - when women weren't allowed to work or own property and their husbands were entirely responsible for their care it made sense that the man was financially well-established - i.e. - older.

People can be weird and judgemental.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine did this. We have him sh*t because that’s what we do, and it’s a bit of fun. We weren’t outright rude to the woman, but we did rib him about getting her home early on school night.

He married her and she’s great.

Good for the guy. The people who give him crap are either doing some light teasing of a buddy or have their own personal issues.


We have a ten year age difference. Ironically several of my husbands friends gave him/us grief. I gave it right back. One ended up with a younger woman so it was kinda funny. The other I still cannot stand with a passion.
Anonymous
Because women are horrible, insecure people towards each other.

Guy here dating 13 years younger. Call me anything you want. I'm loving it. If we broke up, I'd go even younger.
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