MEN - please answer three quick questions

[Anonymous]

1. Different set of parts than I have
2. Complaining all the time about everything.
3. Sense of humor as I'm fantastic in the sack and can cover for both of us.

[Anonymous]

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1. What do you love about women?

They are hot and sexy and often times have sex with us

2. What don't you love about women?

Bitchiness, nagging, bossiness, entitlement, for starters

3. If you had to pick one from a women, which do you prefer: great sense of humor or good in bed?

Good in bed

[Anonymous]

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I don't love the anxiety they make me feel about myself. Do they like me? Find me attractive? Am I acting weird? When they do like me - is it just as a friend, or is there a sexual/Romantic connection here. Also, they are more likely to find my interests boring and I'm more likely to find their interests boring than is the case with most men I meet.

This is more about you than about women. They don’t make you feel insecure, you *are* insecure. They may pick up on that, though.

You're not wrong. But it is what I don't like about women. And I think it comes down to needing to rely on someone else to have a need met. I don't really need to rely on men for much of anything. So, the potential of negative judgment from them doesn't give me anxiety. It's obviously not women's fault that I'm wired to need them for sexual and romantic companionship.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think all responders are men. A perfect example of question 2. Women just don’t know when to STFU.

I think your mom needs help bringing in the groceries.

Meaning what? I don’t get what you are saying.

She’s saying you are juvenile probably because you presumably wrote women just don’t when to STFU.

I’m a man, but I am tired of seeing other men look for every opportunity on this forum to attack women. I realize that it comes the other way, too. But if you are a man who feels a general, powerful hatred toward women, please find a therapist this week. This is unhealthy for you and those around you. You can say anything you want about me, as long as you address the anger you carry.

Sir Galahad, when you're done tipping your fedora to m'lady, maybe you ought to take note of the fact that the overwhelming number of gendered attacks on DCUM are by women against men. Men are babies, men are incompetent, men are lazy, blah blah blah.

I’ve noticed that many of the attacks are by women against men. I originally wrote that I realize that it comes the way, too. I don’t see the point in striking back with names and counter-attacks against women. I have self-interests not chivalric ones. I’d like to continue to come here and gain some insight into what women think, even if those views are occasionally anti-men.

[Anonymous]

1. What do you love about women?
2. What don't you love about women?
3. If you had to pick one from a women, which do you prefer: great sense of humor or good in bed?

1) they are pretty to look at, they can change their appearance, they smell good, they know things like when it’s time to send thank you notes and the best way to get out of going somewhere without hurting someone’s feelings.
2) they tend not to take responsibility for things and occasionally act in irrational ways also using 30 words when only one would suffice can be tiresome.
3) i’ve only found two women truly funny, I’d rather have sex with someone who likes to leave her heels on.

[Anonymous]

1. Soft, effortlessly attractive, always seem to have a point of view or angle of approach that I didn't see but was so obvious once they point it out, gentle in a way that makes me comfortable being vulnerable or open around them.

2. Not a lot of women I've met have been up front about what they want or think or feel.

3. Sense of humor. Some of the best sex I've ever had was with women who were either crazy, one-dimensional, or just ditzy. Humor requires intelligence, observation, and an ability to connect. It's also good in those bad times when we may not see eye to eye.