How did your affair with married woman end?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting to see two recent posts saying the woman couldn’t handle it. I suppose due to guilt?

I’m a married woman and in my case, my married AP couldn’t handle it.

Would like to hear why you say that your married AP couldn’t handle it? Examples please

+1. In what way could the married woman not handle it?

I think this is referring to the married man that can’t handle it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting to see two recent posts saying the woman couldn’t handle it. I suppose due to guilt?

I’m a married woman and in my case, my married AP couldn’t handle it.

Would like to hear why you say that your married AP couldn’t handle it? Examples please

+1. In what way could the married woman not handle it?

I think this is referring to the married man that can’t handle it.

It’s already been determined that the man could in this case, it seems like someone wants everything their way and is afraid to take any risks

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting to see two recent posts saying the woman couldn’t handle it. I suppose due to guilt?

I’m a married woman and in my case, my married AP couldn’t handle it.

Would like to hear why you say that your married AP couldn’t handle it? Examples please

+1. In what way could the married woman not handle it?

I think this is referring to the married man that can’t handle it.

It’s already been determined that the man could in this case, it seems like someone wants everything their way and is afraid to take any risks

Would like to hear why you say the married woman should take risks. Examples please

[Anonymous]

I once was witness to a rather long term affair between a married and unmarried person. Eventually they both got older and developed some health issues. The married person moved with their spouse to an entirely different state, the unmarried person got sick and passed away.

So I guess you could say that it did not end well for that particular relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting to see two recent posts saying the woman couldn’t handle it. I suppose due to guilt?

I’m a married woman and in my case, my married AP couldn’t handle it.

Would like to hear why you say that your married AP couldn’t handle it? Examples please

+1. In what way could the married woman not handle it?

I think this is referring to the married man that can’t handle it.

It’s already been determined that the man could in this case, it seems like someone wants everything their way and is afraid to take any risks

Would like to hear why you say the married woman should take risks. Examples please

Should the married man always pay for everything?
Should the married man always travel to see her? Why can’t she travel to see him?
Should they always meet when it’s convenient for her but not for him?

[Anonymous]

My affair with a single guy actually ended quite well. I was having a mid-life crisis with challenges all around me when this younger guy entered my life purely by chance. For months it was purely platonic and then with very little thought I basically seduced him. I was immediately distraught by what I had done but the sex was so wonderful I couldn’t stop myself. But over time the other challenges in my life really abated and the affair became the big challenge. But the affair was far more physical than emotional for both of us so ending it wasn’t traumatic. It is the only affair I’ve ever had and while I have regrets, deep down it was helpful for me at that point in my life. He’s now happily married and we see each other at events a couple of times a year and it’’s never uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

She got divorced. We still remain FWB

[Anonymous]

I've been with over 5 married women. I ended one because she got too attached and wanted me to spend an entire weekend with her when her husband was away. Previous to then, we only met for sex and that was the basis for the relationship. I was also seeing another married women at the same time and I had no desire to spend any time with the first one outside of the bedroom. So I made up a work excuse about why I couldn't see her any longer. She continued to stalk me and did everything she could to get my attention for about a year after that.

The one I was seeing at the same time told me, tearfully, she felt like she had to give her marriage a chance after her husband said he would stop drinking. She was back to me a month later but by then I was with another married woman and did not hide that fact. She got angry with me over the other woman but I reminded her that she broke up with me. We got together two times after that but then she really got angry and told me to never contact her again.

The other woman lasted about 7 months and she just kind of faded away, saying she wanted a more serious relationship. We are still friends and even FB friends.

Another one was long distance so we only saw each other once a month or so and we both found more local arrangements after about a year. Still friends and she is now divorced.

Another one was also long distance and she got caught by her husband so that was a very bad ending. No contact since then.

I've also had several ONS (or two nights) with married women with offers to repeat any time. I will see at least one or two of them again when the time is right for both of us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been with over 5 married women. I ended one because she got too attached and wanted me to spend an entire weekend with her when her husband was away. Previous to then, we only met for sex and that was the basis for the relationship. I was also seeing another married women at the same time and I had no desire to spend any time with the first one outside of the bedroom. So I made up a work excuse about why I couldn't see her any longer. She continued to stalk me and did everything she could to get my attention for about a year after that.

The one I was seeing at the same time told me, tearfully, she felt like she had to give her marriage a chance after her husband said he would stop drinking. She was back to me a month later but by then I was with another married woman and did not hide that fact. She got angry with me over the other woman but I reminded her that she broke up with me. We got together two times after that but then she really got angry and told me to never contact her again.

The other woman lasted about 7 months and she just kind of faded away, saying she wanted a more serious relationship. We are still friends and even FB friends.

Another one was long distance so we only saw each other once a month or so and we both found more local arrangements after about a year. Still friends and she is now divorced.

Another one was also long distance and she got caught by her husband so that was a very bad ending. No contact since then.

I've also had several ONS (or two nights) with married women with offers to repeat any time. I will see at least one or two of them again when the time is right for both of us.

LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been with over 5 married women. I ended one because she got too attached and wanted me to spend an entire weekend with her when her husband was away. Previous to then, we only met for sex and that was the basis for the relationship. I was also seeing another married women at the same time and I had no desire to spend any time with the first one outside of the bedroom. So I made up a work excuse about why I couldn't see her any longer. She continued to stalk me and did everything she could to get my attention for about a year after that.

The one I was seeing at the same time told me, tearfully, she felt like she had to give her marriage a chance after her husband said he would stop drinking. She was back to me a month later but by then I was with another married woman and did not hide that fact. She got angry with me over the other woman but I reminded her that she broke up with me. We got together two times after that but then she really got angry and told me to never contact her again.

The other woman lasted about 7 months and she just kind of faded away, saying she wanted a more serious relationship. We are still friends and even FB friends.

Another one was long distance so we only saw each other once a month or so and we both found more local arrangements after about a year. Still friends and she is now divorced.

Another one was also long distance and she got caught by her husband so that was a very bad ending. No contact since then.

I've also had several ONS (or two nights) with married women with offers to repeat any time. I will see at least one or two of them again when the time is right for both of us.

LOL

That was about a 4 year run. I don't date married women anymore as I'm seriously seeing one now for the past few years who finally broke it off with the ex. But if my situation changed, I'd probably go back to it. They are easy to find around here in the right age range.