I'm not saying the wife sounds like a peach but if you stay in a relationship you're unhappy in for 15 years, and have a kid at year 10, ten you bear some responsibility for your own unhappiness. You can't wait for life to change for you. |
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Maybe she doesn't enjoy sex with you but after years she thought maybe she'd check to see if it was the same. Who knows, not us, only you two.
DCUM doesn't know what you should do either, only you do. |
| OP, get a vasectomy |
This was my first thought - covering her tracks. |
THIS ^^ is the best answer. No matter what, take control of that. If she only wants sex when she wants a baby, then don't trust her. If you do get her pregnant again, you have no one to blame but yourself. She isn't dumb. She knows that not having sex will likely lead to you leaving her eventually. Having another kid while giving you false hope that her sex drive has returned is the best way to tie you down a few more years. |
I didn't think of that but it's a real possibility. You better hold her off at least another 5 months or so to see what happens. |
| What is your role in the household as a husband, father, property owner? Where and when did things go off the rails? |
| Troll |