Dating again -- inviting a guy inside?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am shocked. I though this country was much more advanced in terms of gender equality.
1. If you want to have sex with him, you can as well take the lead. Why do you have to wait until he does the first move? I do not get this.
2. So a guy that wants to have sex with you and proposes to do so, does not respect you?
Oh L..., you sound like my country 50 years ago (and its not one of the most advanced one in terms of equality...)

Nothing dries up a pussy like giving her "equality" and letting her take the lead.

Guys like it when women are clear and direct in wanting to have sex. And in this me too era, lots of guys are fine with women making a move or saying something that makes it clear they want it. Guys really don't like the coy, head games, playing hard to get routine

[Anonymous]

Guy is queer or has erectile dysfunction. Or, doesn’t t find op attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh brother you guys are just being jerks. I agree that she could be direct but people - both sexes - sometimes mess up because each one wants the other party to be the direct one. That's just life.

In the age oof metoo it won’t be the guy

[Anonymous]

OP, you unzip and pull it out! sheesh. We're not mind readers!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm back dating again. I invited a guy inside to Netflix and cuddle. He only kissed and no overt moves. Is he not interested in me?

Geezus, I pray dude reads this and runs for the hills ASAP. You've got a giant emotional instability/insecurity stamp on your forehead that screams DRAMA.

[Anonymous]

If he hasn’t asked you out again he is not interested in you. If you wanted to have sex with him you should have said so.

[Anonymous]

Man here- if a woman invited me over for Netflix and cuddle I would anticipate that we might have sex but not assume it. If I made an unwarranted move I might well be trashed across social media by the time I got home. I might initiate some cuddling but anything beyond that has to be led by her at which point I’m happy to oblige.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here- if a woman invited me over for Netflix and cuddle I would anticipate that we might have sex but not assume it. If I made an unwarranted move I might well be trashed across social media by the time I got home. I might initiate some cuddling but anything beyond that has to be led by her at which point I’m happy to oblige.

+1. I'd say in my mind there'd a more than likely chance something will happen and I would make sure I'm clean and smell good. But depending on the vibe I wouldn't force the issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am shocked. I though this country was much more advanced in terms of gender equality.
1. If you want to have sex with him, you can as well take the lead. Why do you have to wait until he does the first move? I do not get this.
2. So a guy that wants to have sex with you and proposes to do so, does not respect you?
Oh L..., you sound like my country 50 years ago (and its not one of the most advanced one in terms of equality...)

Nothing dries up a pussy like giving her "equality" and letting her take the lead.

When you look at countries with gender equality, it's just amazing the number of dried up snatches. They are drying up from coast to coast in the US!

LOL it's not the soyboys who believe in "equality" and letting her take the lead who are getting the wet pussies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy is queer or has erectile dysfunction. Or, doesn’t t find op attractive.

I am shocked that we reached the third page of comments before someone said this!

Usually "he is gay" is the immediate go-to DCUM response to any posts about male sexuality (just like "divorce him" is the immediate go-to DCUM response to any posts about marital difficulties).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here- if a woman invited me over for Netflix and cuddle I would anticipate that we might have sex but not assume it. If I made an unwarranted move I might well be trashed across social media by the time I got home. I might initiate some cuddling but anything beyond that has to be led by her at which point I’m happy to oblige.

Want men need is some sort of "consent app" on their phone where she can initial her consent to each stage of the process, amirite?

[Anonymous]

Who wants to bet OP wouldn't shut up for five seconds and totally ruined the guys inclination to initiate intimacy with her. I'm betting the OP was yapping so much the only move he wanted to make was to the door as soon as the Netflix movie was over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who wants to bet OP wouldn't shut up for five seconds and totally ruined the guys inclination to initiate intimacy with her. I'm betting the OP was yapping so much the only move he wanted to make was to the door as soon as the Netflix movie was over.

Who wants to bet you’re a sad Men’s Rights dude who can’t get a date let alone get laid?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who wants to bet OP wouldn't shut up for five seconds and totally ruined the guys inclination to initiate intimacy with her. I'm betting the OP was yapping so much the only move he wanted to make was to the door as soon as the Netflix movie was over.

Who wants to bet you’re a sad Men’s Rights dude who can’t get a date let alone get laid?

OP already admitted that she's not getting any genius, why are you going against a sure bet and trying to throw your money away on ridiculous assumption out of sheer spite?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who wants to bet OP wouldn't shut up for five seconds and totally ruined the guys inclination to initiate intimacy with her. I'm betting the OP was yapping so much the only move he wanted to make was to the door as soon as the Netflix movie was over.

No, no, it is usually much further along in the relationship before she destroys his desire to have sex by launching into a long list of boner-killing complaints whenever they're alone.

When you're first dating, you can say "shut up and get naked" whenever she starts talking -- and she will!