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If you have options, then the final choice is really personality driven. If you have choices, it means your college prospects are going to be great no matter where you go. My DC ranked admitted options:
Private boys Wilson Coed Catholic Walls Dcs friends who had similar options ranked the same schools in a different order. Academically they will all be prepared; how they enjoy the journey is about personality and fit. Having those options is a privilege of wealth and intelligence. |
not necessarily wealth, financial aid levels the playing field a little (two of the options listed are free). Definitely intelligence and personality..DC/MD privates are rejecting smart, full pay kids. |
Is it all privates or just the top tier ones that you would chose over Walls? Walls vs. Sidwell/NCS/GDS might be a different decision than Walls vs. Field or Burke or where ever else? |
Was it quality of experience of the academics/cohort of kids or the extras (the kind of stuff you can supplement)? |
Tough call. Depends on which private. Weigh cons and pros of each. |
Not to people who feel that Field or Burke is a great fit for them. I know at least three kids who chose Burke and Field over Walls, which is not about Walls, but about the child's preference. I know a lot of kids who chose Wilson over Walls too. Honestly, not many people choose a high school based on a DCUM "rank" or believe one is "best" for everyone or the best education of all -- it really isn't true and is just a construct on DCUM. And, as is obvious from where these threads usually end up, the people doing that are usually using things like how many HYP matriculations or who got more kids extra time to boost their SAT averages, which are variables that have nothing to do with the education and experience of high school. Most people choose a high school based on more personal criteria. |
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Parents should know their kids better (and kids should know themselves better) to the point to find the best fit.
Stop looking to rankings and talk to your child. You will see how easier life will get if you choose whatever is better for your kid, not whatever will impress more your neighbors. It is so simple! |
I could have written this. DC chose GDS over SWW but it was close, even closer than other privates including one Cathedral school. To be fair, I think I was open about my preference for GDS as a better fit in the end. Lots of DC's friends from former DCPS, private MS, and neighborhood friends are thriving at SWW. |
Thanks. This is all very helpful. |
| ‘If I was poor’. Yuck!! ? if SWW means avoiding your type - it is the top choice. |
| As a SWW alum, I'd happily send DC there. That's our goal and first choice for HS. Also, I'd love a tuition-free period prior to college. |
| Grandson started at SWW but switched to Jackson Reed( |
Why? |
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I just read this thread, as we are facing the same choice. College admissions stats don't matter to me. That said, an academically motivated and highly capable cohort is something DC wants, for the intellectual challenge. But having a nice all-around experience is also very important.
The school setting, community feel, more holistic approach, and teacher enthusiasm and engagement we saw on our visits were much more appealing at the private. However the longer travel distance and earlier start time at the private would mean getting up 1.5 hours earlier, and DC is not a morning person. That's probably the biggest concern, though it's possible the difference could be cancelled out if SWW is more of a grind and saps more energy (I read on Niche that stress level is high at SWW). The cost is not the ultimate deciding factor, but saving that tuition would be nice, all else being equal. Another consideration is that going to the private would mean being eligible for in-state admissions and tuition at a Virginia university (I've checked the rules), if DC decides to go that route, and the savings in college tuition could end up far exceeding the private school tuition outlay. But how choices after high school might play out is an unknown right now. WWYD in this situation? |
How would your child receive in-state admissions/tuition at VA universities if they were admitted to Walls (and thus a DC resident)? |