How late in the week do you accept dates?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'm a guy. I tried to ask her out earlier, but I don't think she realized I was asking her out.

Make sure you're clear in your communication.

I asked her what she was doing next weekend in reference to this Saturday. She then told me exactly what she was doing. Didn't ask why I wanted to know and proceeded to move onto another topic.

I hated guys like you. In the DC area, guys are super vague about plans. They try to feel you out before actually asking. Or if they find out you are going out somewhere, "maybe Ill see you there". Or they tell you where they are going to be and expect you go there on the off chance you will run into them.

If you want to go out with her then you need to ask, "If you aren't busy on Saturday, would you like to go ti dinner and a movie with me?"

EXACTLY!!!

[Anonymous]

Yeah, this super vague inquiry about my plans or whatever is bs. The mealy mouthed, passive aggressive not able to say what you mean is super unattractive, and conversely, being able to communicate and ask for what you want will automatically make you more appealing to me and thus, make me more likely to say yes. But, I am not going to intuit your interest based on a vague inquiry about what I'm doing this weekend; at best, I will just be completely oblivious. At worst, I will think you are just angling for a hookup, rather than that you are actually interested in me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'm a guy. I tried to ask her out earlier, but I don't think she realized I was asking her out.

Make sure you're clear in your communication.

I asked her what she was doing next weekend in reference to this Saturday. She then told me exactly what she was doing. Didn't ask why I wanted to know and proceeded to move onto another topic.

I hated guys like you. In the DC area, guys are super vague about plans. They try to feel you out before actually asking. Or if they find out you are going out somewhere, "maybe Ill see you there". Or they tell you where they are going to be and expect you go there on the off chance you will run into them.

If you want to go out with her then you need to ask, "If you aren't busy on Saturday, would you like to go ti dinner and a movie with me?"

It's not just DC guys. I moved to California a little over a year and and guys out here are the same. I'm this close to to throwing in the towel.

Take the initiative. Don’t wait to be asked or not asked.

[Anonymous]

I think the morale here should be - if want a date, ask for one. If you just are curious what someone’s plans are, ask that instead. Male or female. No one is a mind reader. Yes it means you have to put yourself out there rather than beat around the bush. But it will be ok - live a little.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'm a guy. I tried to ask her out earlier, but I don't think she realized I was asking her out.

Make sure you're clear in your communication.

I asked her what she was doing next weekend in reference to this Saturday. She then told me exactly what she was doing. Didn't ask why I wanted to know and proceeded to move onto another topic.

You need to ask a direct question. If you asked me what my weekend plans were, I would never dream of asking why you wanted to know/were asking. The way I was raised, for me to ask that would be rude.

[Anonymous]

Op here. I'll ask her again and be more clear this time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'll ask her again and be more clear this time.

For total clarity, text "my place, 8pm" and attach dick pic.