I actually think it’s more nuts that people can’t believe that children believe in Santa. Im gearing kids aren’t smart because they still believe and it’s ridiculous. Lots of parents remember the joy of Christmas and Santa as a kid and that’s why they do it for theirs. I’m starting to think all the parents who can’t believe had miserable childhoods. |
I believe that kids believe in Santa. I don't believe that most fifth-graders still truly, fully believe in Santa, and I certainly don't believe that hearing that someone else doesn't think that Santa is real is going to traumatize a kid or ruin all the magic of Christmas or whatever the obsessed parents on here think. |
That is a completely rational and proportional reaction. |
The issue isn't fifth-graders. It's first graders reading the book, or parents reading aloud to even younger kids. |
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Parents reading a book aloud can exercise a little censorship if they desire. A first grader who is precocious enough to be reading this book very likely knows the deal on Santa already. |
Umm, this thread is about one book, which is well-known as a Santa-outing book. Pointing it out for those who are unaware isn't prejudicial. It's just advice to parents. |
Lest we not forget about masturbation (Then Again, Maybe I Won't and Deenie). Pearl clutchers beware! |
i have an alternative take. parents who are so invested in protecting their children from age-appropriate information in order to preserve the "magic" of a single day are having miserable parenthoods and are trying to compensate with Christmas. |
No, not really. |
My kid read it in second. He still pretends to believe. |
No, it's an anti-semitic complaint couched as "advice" to parents. |
rigghht. in this little corner of DCUM, our "advanced learners" somehow regress to age-inappropriate behavior. LARLA IS READING AT A SIXTH GRADE LEVEL BUT DONT YOU DARE RUIN SANTA! |
Yep. I forgot about this, and discovered it while reading aloud to my son when he was about 5. The funny thing is that DH and I were both in the bed with him (I don't recall who was reading) and whoever was reading managed to edit on the spot to save the secret and we looked at each other the whole time with huge eyes. |
my kids, k and 3rd, listed to it on audio tape this summer. They heard it but never said anything. I am sure they explained it away as the character's flawed point of view. If they want to belive (mine do) they will. This is probably dorment inside them somewhere and will grow into a seed of doubt when they are ready to give santa up.
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