I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life

[Anonymous]

Huh, I'm sorry. Of course I had to calculate my own. I'm 32 and lost my virginity at 21, so I guess 34%? Although I was only having sex sporadically until meeting my husband 6 years ago, so in reality it's probably lower than that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Male or female?

What's with all the doom and gloomers on this board?

Male. I have zero game so this isn’t going to change. Some people were just meant to fail with the opposite sex

That's what short, fat, balding, boring losers always say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Male or female?

What's with all the doom and gloomers on this board?

Male. I have zero game so this isn’t going to change. Some people were just meant to fail with the opposite sex

That's what short, fat, balding, boring losers always say.

would you say that to a woman ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Male or female?

What's with all the doom and gloomers on this board?

Male. I have zero game so this isn’t going to change. Some people were just meant to fail with the opposite sex

That's what short, fat, balding, boring losers always say.

would you say that to a woman ?

The comment would not apply because women do not need "game". All they have to do is not be fat and stand there looking pretty. If she were fat, though, I'd definitely tell her to stop being fat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I actually fear an afterlife because it might be an eternity of this. Me being constantly reminded of what a freak and failure I am. It’ll probably be an eternity of me at an orgy where everyone gets laid but me. I’ve literalky gone to college parties where that happened

This is a textbook example of how self-talk ("I'm a freak and a failure") causes feelings ("I feel like a failure") including future catastrophic thinking ("eternity of me at an orgy").

PLEASE make an appointment with a therapist.

This might have been me (except for the orgy in heaven part, ewww) at one time.

Feeling better about yourself may or may not eventually lead to opportunities for sex, but staying in the same mental space you are in now will likely BAR any such opportunities and even if you do stumble into sex one way or another it is NOT going to be fun if that's how you are feeling.

+1 Plenty of people who are not conventionally attractive, not fit, and have weird personalities have satisfying sexual relationships. You just need to have enough confidence meet people. If you just can't do it, therapy is the way to go.

[Anonymous]

No game huh? No self confidence? Probably low T as well? Women do not notice you? They don’t think you have good genes, don’t think you’re a good protector? A dweeb? Change that! Will take a year of your life. Work hard at your job, save and invest your money while conditioning your body. Lift weights, do cross fit etc while at the same time learn how to fight—real fighting—jujitsu, krav maga, boxing mixed with some type of martial art.

The idea is not to enter the ring and score points, but to be able to take your opponent’s life if you ever had to. Hope it never comes to that but if it ever did you’d face it with confidence. Oh, at the same time during your year of physical conditioning practice being kind to everybody, coworkers, neighbors, strangers etc. Also be inquisitive about the world around you. Take that year to change your body and your soul. Women will gravitate towards you and someone will be happy to be your mate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you happen to do doc review for a living?

Same thought here...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No game huh? No self confidence? Probably low T as well? Women do not notice you? They don’t think you have good genes, don’t think you’re a good protector? A dweeb? Change that! Will take a year of your life. Work hard at your job, save and invest your money while conditioning your body. Lift weights, do cross fit etc while at the same time learn how to fight—real fighting—jujitsu, krav maga, boxing mixed with some type of martial art.

The idea is not to enter the ring and score points, but to be able to take your opponent’s life if you ever had to. Hope it never comes to that but if it ever did you’d face it with confidence. Oh, at the same time during your year of physical conditioning practice being kind to everybody, coworkers, neighbors, strangers etc. Also be inquisitive about the world around you. Take that year to change your body and your soul. Women will gravitate towards you and someone will be happy to be your mate.

This is perfect advice, follow it to the f$&#ing letter!!
Men and women are attracted to confidence and competence; make yourself both and life is going to turn right around.

DO NOT!
Take a pickup artist class, it’s fake and any woman you trick will vanish the moment she sees you’re a fraud.

You can do this!
Go for it!