My 15 year old niece is being tried as an adult for a fight

Anonymous
is it possible for the family of the other girl to sue OPs family for not rehabilitating this girl? Why was she not sent to military boot camp? Prison might be the best place for this girl
Anonymous
She has probably been abused.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old niece has been in so many fights for 2 years. The last fight resulted in serious injury of the victim. I don’t condone fights at all, but this time she was tried as an adult, which made the whole family mad. I and my sister (her mother) spoke to the prosecutor directly insisting she be tried as a juvenile. The prosecutor said she has been tried as a juvenile so many times and is unable to be rehabilitated. I said teens brains are not fully developed so it takes time. At one point he said “adult actions have adult consequences” and I replied “teen actions have teen consequences”. It’s not fair the town doesn’t trust her to be out after 10 PM without an adult but thinks she is mature enough to foresee the consequences of her actions 20+ years later. I know a 17 year old kid who is being tried as a juvenile for shoplifting. This isn’t his first time shoplifting and he is older than my niece. He is being tried as a juvenile. What? Shoplifting isn’t as bad as fighting?


Oh Lord.

I wish prosecutors could send stupid family members to jail.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old niece has been in so many fights for 2 years. The last fight resulted in serious injury of the victim. I don’t condone fights at all, but this time she was tried as an adult, which made the whole family mad. I and my sister (her mother) spoke to the prosecutor directly insisting she be tried as a juvenile. The prosecutor said she has been tried as a juvenile so many times and is unable to be rehabilitated. I said teens brains are not fully developed so it takes time. At one point he said “adult actions have adult consequences” and I replied “teen actions have teen consequences”. It’s not fair the town doesn’t trust her to be out after 10 PM without an adult but thinks she is mature enough to foresee the consequences of her actions 20+ years later. I know a 17 year old kid who is being tried as a juvenile for shoplifting. This isn’t his first time shoplifting and he is older than my niece. He is being tried as a juvenile. What? Shoplifting isn’t as bad as fighting?


I’m a prosecutor and you’re really not doing any favors by making demands like this.
Anonymous
Troll.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old niece has been in so many fights for 2 years. The last fight resulted in serious injury of the victim. I don’t condone fights at all, but this time she was tried as an adult, which made the whole family mad. I and my sister (her mother) spoke to the prosecutor directly insisting she be tried as a juvenile. The prosecutor said she has been tried as a juvenile so many times and is unable to be rehabilitated. I said teens brains are not fully developed so it takes time. At one point he said “adult actions have adult consequences” and I replied “teen actions have teen consequences”. It’s not fair the town doesn’t trust her to be out after 10 PM without an adult but thinks she is mature enough to foresee the consequences of her actions 20+ years later. I know a 17 year old kid who is being tried as a juvenile for shoplifting. This isn’t his first time shoplifting and he is older than my niece. He is being tried as a juvenile. What? Shoplifting isn’t as bad as fighting?


I’m a prosecutor and you’re really not doing any favors by making demands like this.


No kidding. It just says that the family will continue to make excuses for and enable this behavior.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:is it possible for the family of the other girl to sue OPs family for not rehabilitating this girl? Why was she not sent to military boot camp? Prison might be the best place for this girl


Sure but if they win, what will they get? And empty judgment because who's going to pay?
Anonymous
Elaborate troll story.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old niece has been in so many fights for 2 years. The last fight resulted in serious injury of the victim. I don’t condone fights at all, but this time she was tried as an adult, which made the whole family mad. I and my sister (her mother) spoke to the prosecutor directly insisting she be tried as a juvenile. The prosecutor said she has been tried as a juvenile so many times and is unable to be rehabilitated. I said teens brains are not fully developed so it takes time. At one point he said “adult actions have adult consequences” and I replied “teen actions have teen consequences”. It’s not fair the town doesn’t trust her to be out after 10 PM without an adult but thinks she is mature enough to foresee the consequences of her actions 20+ years later. I know a 17 year old kid who is being tried as a juvenile for shoplifting. This isn’t his first time shoplifting and he is older than my niece. He is being tried as a juvenile. What? Shoplifting isn’t as bad as fighting?


I was not aware that family members of the accused were able to set the parameters of the prosecution. Learn something new every day.


You did not know rich people hire lawyers that directly call the prosecutor and work a deal.

Really?


You read OP's language and grammar use and thought there was money somewhere in her life? Really?
Anonymous
Sounds like she is getting what she deserves.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I work for the state juvenile prison schools. She will get more "rehabilitation" from an adult prison than being at Waxter or Lower Eastern Shore (is that where she went last time? or Noyes?)


This board is not MD or MoCo specific so it could just as easily be DC or Virginia. This sounds like par for the course in Virginia. OP - you should be talking to the child's lawyer, not the internet. Have you ever known an anonymous internet site to be a bastion of compassion? Me neither.


Par for the course? Surely, you do realize that if a teenager shoots you dead or a 22 year old shoots you dead, you're still dead. Same with serious injury caused by a 15 year old.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Military school. Seriously.

Also, where is the dad in this?
Someone needs to seriously discipline and put restrictions on this child until she grows up and stops being a menace to society.

Serious tough love is in order.


Well the parents are failures. She beat up another child who needed medical attention. I think jail time is fair. She is a menace to society.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old niece has been in so many fights for 2 years. The last fight resulted in serious injury of the victim. I don’t condone fights at all, but this time she was tried as an adult, which made the whole family mad. I and my sister (her mother) spoke to the prosecutor directly insisting she be tried as a juvenile. The prosecutor said she has been tried as a juvenile so many times and is unable to be rehabilitated. I said teens brains are not fully developed so it takes time. At one point he said “adult actions have adult consequences” and I replied “teen actions have teen consequences”. It’s not fair the town doesn’t trust her to be out after 10 PM without an adult but thinks she is mature enough to foresee the consequences of her actions 20+ years later. I know a 17 year old kid who is being tried as a juvenile for shoplifting. This isn’t his first time shoplifting and he is older than my niece. He is being tried as a juvenile. What? Shoplifting isn’t as bad as fighting?


What jurisdiction is she in?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She has probably been abused.


Yup.

~Somene who works in juvenile justice.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old niece has been in so many fights for 2 years. The last fight resulted in serious injury of the victim. I don’t condone fights at all, but this time she was tried as an adult, which made the whole family mad. I and my sister (her mother) spoke to the prosecutor directly insisting she be tried as a juvenile. The prosecutor said she has been tried as a juvenile so many times and is unable to be rehabilitated. I said teens brains are not fully developed so it takes time. At one point he said “adult actions have adult consequences” and I replied “teen actions have teen consequences”. It’s not fair the town doesn’t trust her to be out after 10 PM without an adult but thinks she is mature enough to foresee the consequences of her actions 20+ years later. I know a 17 year old kid who is being tried as a juvenile for shoplifting. This isn’t his first time shoplifting and he is older than my niece. He is being tried as a juvenile. What? Shoplifting isn’t as bad as fighting?


I’m a prosecutor and you’re really not doing any favors by making demands like this.


No kidding. It just says that the family will continue to make excuses for and enable this behavior.


Pp here. I really really don’t enjoy being ordered around by a defendant’s family. I try very hard to treat everyone fairly, but OP’s “insistence” would leave a bad taste in my mouth.
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