Do you like your inebriated spouse?

[Anonymous]

He's fun! And doesn't puke or complain the next day.

[Anonymous]

It’s usually pretty funny when my husband is drunk, so I don’t mind.

[Anonymous]

I like to see my usually uptight/very controlled, responsible DH let loose even if he ends up sloppy drunk rather than fun drunk. Best is fun drunk, but I don't find sloppy drunk disgusting. It's rare though, if it were a regular thing I could see it getting old quick.

[Anonymous]

Nope.
His IQ falls about 50 points.
He completely loses everything that’s masculine and strong about him.
And he often gets super mean.

[Anonymous]

How drunk are we talking about?

I probably wouldn't like it if my husband got sloppy drunk all of the time and came home slurring his words. I also wouldn't like it if he was an angry drunk.

But getting tipsy or having a few too many doesn't bother me. He works hard -- not just in his professional life but also around the house. I actually like it when he's able to let himself get a little drunk and be a little carefree.

[Anonymous]

I love drunk DH. He's adorable, silly, extremely affectionate and tends to be a little more dominating in the bedroom (which he knows I like but usually he's in his head too much to get super into it)

Or he gets sleepy. Which isn't as fun but not something I'd get mad over.

[Anonymous]

We both drink socially. I’ve never seen him drunk or vice versa. My XH was a stoner so I really dislike dealing with people who are under the influence.

[Anonymous]

Last time my husband got drunk was over 30 years ago. He was brought home by a co worker. He ran into the house and threw up in the kitchen sink. I mean he filled up the sink. Grateful for small favors, it was on the disposal side. Then he collapsed on the floor where I left him. He woke up periodically to fart and use bad language. Not at me, he just kept saying nasty words and laughing. I watched him all night, sat reading a book, entertaining as hell. How he slept on that hard floor amazes me.

When he woke up the next day he was so embarrassed and sickly dehydrated. He never had a drop of liquor since. He cleaned up his mess, apologized for days after.

I took pictures of him. He doesn't know. HA HA !

[Anonymous]

I hate my drunk spouse.

[Anonymous]

it turns me on, smelling the whiskey on his breath while having sex when he’s really drunk is a huge turnon for me and I get off on it.

[Anonymous]

The last straw with my now ex was when he went out after we'd had a fight, came home and made a huge scene at 3am, and threw up in our front hallway.

He drank very rarely and I wouldn't say he had a drinking problem but that drunken night showed him for the coward he is. He couldn't face his feelings or use his words so he got hammered and made a scene.

My partner had been sober for eight years when we met. Serious upgrade.

[Anonymous]

When I am sober (which is always), I get annoyed seeing another person drunk.
They oftentimes cry, are difficult to converse with + cannot even walk w/out being aided.
Just a hot mess.

I also get annoyed at looking at someone who is stoned as well.
They have blood-shot glazed over eyes, laugh at stupid stupid stuff & eat like crazy.
They can barely hold a conversation, then usually fall asleep within a couple hours.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How drunk are we talking about?

I probably wouldn't like it if my husband got sloppy drunk all of the time and came home slurring his words. I also wouldn't like it if he was an angry drunk.

But getting tipsy or having a few too many doesn't bother me. He works hard -- not just in his professional life but also around the house. I actually like it when he's able to let himself get a little drunk and be a little carefree.

We are talking sloppy drunk. Slurring words. Tripping a little. Not tipsy/happy. Not an angry drunk. Just too drunk. It isn't all the time. Hell, it isn't very often. But when it happens, I find it repulsive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love drunk DH, he's warm and handsy and affectionate and chatty. He is like that not drunk (although he's not chatty at all so that is a bonus) but he is just fun when tipsy.

I will say that it doesn't happen that often so its kind of just a nice interlude, I'm not dealing with a drunk person every night.

I hope he knows how lucky he is.

[Anonymous]

Can’t stand him.

He also can’t perform sexually when he’s had even one drink. Since he used to drink daily we rarely had sex. It made for a miserable marriage.