I'm 13 and struggling with my sexuality

[Anonymous]

You are 13, there is no need to decide or announce anything. It's what being a teenager is all about, exploring your feelinga. Like guys, like girls. Eventually, when you get to the point of being physical, you will figure out what's you like and whether guys or gals suit you. People have done this for ages,but felt no need to announce anything or decide what they are until they have lived and tried a number of relationships.

[Anonymous]

My 17 y.o. DD declared herself bi and now lesbian. She liked boys until about 8 months ago but now has a girlfriend. She has posted this info on her many social media accounts. I don't understand the need to post/share and label herself so much, I get the feeling that a big part of it is for attention. I recommend not labeling yourself and see how it goes as you mature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find the term "demisexual" to be amusing. I think that it's great to be emotionally connected to a person before desiring that person sexually. I guess that I evolved into a "demisexual" over time, although I don't announce this to people!

Pansexual, nonbinary, agender, gender fluid. It’s all amusing. This generation really needs to give it a rest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have plenty of time to figure your sexuality out. There's no need to choose a label and feel stuck with it forever. I generally identify as bisexual and have since I was a teenager. I know that it's more complicated than that, and at this point I just kind of go with the flow. I'm attracted to I'm attracted to, I love who I love. The labels really don't matter.

Thank you that's exactly how I feel, but all of my friends around me know so fast and I don't understand that.

Not all of them. Some people know very young, some don't. Judging by my son's experience in high school interacting with a ton of people, there are many who like drama, and feel very strongly about whatever they feel at a given moment. They "know" but know something else six months later.

[Anonymous]

Op isn’t 13. Probably some 40–something guy still living with parents.

[Anonymous]

Please be careful of adult sexual predators at school.