In laws are coming to town = spouse is stressed

[Anonymous]

I get stressed when the inlaws come, because they start to rearrange things, or will point out things that need work etc. Figure out what the main triggers are. Mine is I feel pressured to have everything perfect, when all is fine already. I now aim to have them come less often, but for longer stretches (one week interval instead of multiple weekends.) I hire a cleaner to come in a few days before arrival. I have meals mostly prepped in advance, leaving me more down time to visit. I put things back where I want them after they leave, and ignore this quirk on their part.