To the Men out there.... What can I do...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:to show my man that I regret being a moody wench for the past year (while I was dealing with major health issues and being ungrateful while balancing our kids) now that I can exhale and see just how lucky I am. Yes, frequent sex and all the extra trappings. I know that part. Got that down. I am in good shape, so we are ok there too. I am looking for other ways. What really makes you feel awesome from your wife? What do you wish she would do (other than the sex arena) that she does not do currently or often enough? Want to be a bit more creative. He deserves it.

To answer this first, you need to know what his top 2 love languages are. If you aren't speaking his language he'll miss the message. I would say that you should voice those things to him several times in several ways over a couple weeks' time, but words of affirmation is my love language, so that why I would suggest that. It may not be his.

https://365tests.com/personality-tests/what-is-your-love-language/

I can in here to post this. I am a words and physical touch person and my spouse is a quality time and acts of service person. Spouse is routinely frustrated because my words of praise to them are insignificant and if I really meant it, then I would dedicate the time to the acts of service they are seeking.

Ugh, this is me and DH but reversed. Words mean very little to me. Show me. The frustrating part is words mean something to him, I know this and I use them, he just doesn't always want to hear what I'm saying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:to show my man that I regret being a moody wench for the past year (while I was dealing with major health issues and being ungrateful while balancing our kids) now that I can exhale and see just how lucky I am. Yes, frequent sex and all the extra trappings. I know that part. Got that down. I am in good shape, so we are ok there too. I am looking for other ways. What really makes you feel awesome from your wife? What do you wish she would do (other than the sex arena) that she does not do currently or often enough? Want to be a bit more creative. He deserves it.

I think just frequent sex and blow mobs would do the trick. If you’re doing that, you’re good.

+ 1 and the key is to maintain a high libido moving forward. not as off the charts as you should be for the next couple of weeks, but still, a lot better than it has been, even before your year-long spell as a wench.

[Anonymous]

Feed him then...

[Anonymous]

Blow him over

and over

and over

and over

get your labia pierced

[Anonymous]

love language only works if the spouses are willing to work on each others language. Mine was physical touch, DW said she was shocked on how high my score was for it but did nothing. Hers was signs of appreciation which I immediately started to do